I'm 15. I have a friend and I don't know if she likes me or is just comfortable around me. I like her btw. See, we were laying in bed watching a movie and she didn't mind being close to me and she was kind of laying on me a bit and I had my arm around her. Would she be like that if she didn't like me more than a friend?
Next time we are in this situation (probably this weekend) what shoud I do? And should I go further to see if she likes me?
2007-03-16 08:37:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me personally, if I were you, I wouldn't take it too fast, you two are young still. Hold her closer to you, perhaps touch her softly. Talk to her while you are holding her. I wouldn't try and have sex with her, at least not yet. You don't know if she likes you more than a friend...
2007-03-16 08:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she lets you have your arm around her, then she's totally comfortable with you, and not in a nice way, but more than just as a friend. If she can trust you like that, then don't be in doubt that she probably does have feelings for you as more than just a friend. You should totally make a move this weekend when you're in that situation, or you can just straight up ask her what she thinks of you. It wouldn't hurt, and I mean you guys are already obviously really good friends. It shouldn't be much trouble to ask her a simple question like that. Go for it, and GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-16 08:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Nina_Nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she does like you because that laying thing is kinda a move to find out if you are comfortable with you two being close and since you had her arm around that was a yes. so next time that happens do something like instead of putting your arm around her, hold her hand while laying down and if she doesnt pull away (she wont) then she likes you. and while u do that look into her eyes. so cute if you did.
2007-03-16 08:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try kissing her. But dont show that you're going to try by puckering your lips first. First just lean in, and if she leans in, close your eyes. If the girl doesnt lean in with you, just stop and go back on the bed and close your eyes for a bit maybe like 5 seconds.
She might try to kiss you if you're like that. Trust me. Something like this happened to me, and since me and the my guy were on the bed together talking, I was so tired of talking I closed my eyes, and 2 seconds later, I realize his lips were on me, and his legs were spread out. It kinda looked like we were doing it. But anyway, good luck! Hoped it helped.
2007-03-16 08:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was flirting back. I think you should continue to "put the moves on her." If she keeps responding positively, she probably wants to start a relationship. My advice is to ask her out. It's the only way to know for sure.
2007-03-16 08:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Prue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you more than a friend. Go at it slow. don't pressure her. ease into it with playing footsie, tickling her is a goodway to ease into a kiss. stroke her hair away from her neck & smile watch more movie, then gently smell her neck & breath out w/ a soft whisper aaah. warm soft breath on the neck is very sensuaos. Girls love it. But don't have sex until you're married or have condoms.
2007-03-16 08:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by J Doe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's a nice girl and waiting for you to make the first move. Get close enough to kiss her. You'll know if she leans in for the kiss, or puts her hand up to shove you away!
Good luck :)
2007-03-16 08:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's waiting 4 u to put the moves on, but you blew it
2007-03-16 08:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is teasing you. So try and kiss her and if she rebuffs your advances leave her alone and no more of that.
2007-03-16 08:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a complete puffer fish
2007-03-16 08:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by flaming_soul26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋