dis boy in school asked me out n im scared to go out wiv him caus we will av 2 kiss and i have nt kissed anyone n im 16 asweel. i dnt wanthim to laugh at me caus i cant kiss. how should i kiss so he doesnt knw itz ma first tym. plz helppppppppp.
2007-03-16 08:36:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so keep cool.......once you do it you'll realise u worried about nothing...and if you are going out then it wont matter how you kiss cos he asked you so he must like you....it shouldnt mean he will stop liking you even if you are bad.....allot of people are naturally good kisser and you could be one of them.....you will never find out unless you try!!!!!trust me!!!!its actually great!!!!if you tell yourself you are a good kisser then you will have the confidence to become a good kisser.....if your scared it could easily be bad....just get it over with and you will never have to feel so nervous about it again!!!!which is yay!!!!so chilax...take it easy...deep breathes and what is the worst that can happen???maybe try practising before hand by making a small circle with your thumb and second finger and try french kissing it.....stick your thumb through the hole and although it is weird it is very realistic.......please dont worry its not a big deal and i was nervous but realised after i was being utterly stupid that it was fine...just relax and try to enjoy it!!xxxxxx
2007-03-16 09:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by confused at college 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so scared...relax!!! Things are not so bad...trust me.... kissing isn't as complicated and difficult as it seems to be... and it's much more easy than you think... i was really stressed when my boyfriend decided to kiss me...and i wanted to but i thought that he wouldn't like the way i kiss, because it was my first time...and many times he tried to kiss me but i rejected him...suddenly 1 day, as we were hugged he kissed me and i realized that i wasn't stressed at all...i just enjoyed the moment...since then we have kissed many times and we have tried many things (you know, kisses with tongue...) and we both enjoyed it the same, although it was my first time... So you shouldn't think about it at all....it's just the moment and that's what it makes it more beautiful...if you think about it all the time and get stressed the "magic" of that moment will be lost... The most important is that you really want that to happen and the boy is "inspiring" you...otherwise there's no point in kissing him...it won't be nice... good luck and RELAX!! Just think that he'll be as stressed as you whether you like his kissing no matter he's probably kissed again before...
2007-03-16 08:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be ashamed about not having kissed before, CHANGE YOUR THINKING and instead BE PROUD of your self control. Save your kiss for someone thats truly special. I wouldn't want my girlfriend to be a practised kisser except with me.
Wouldn't you rather enjoy the pleasures of first time Love with someone whose only focus is on you as opposed to with someone who is a practised player.
2007-03-16 23:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about a thing, It just comes natural. My first kiss was pretty good for a 13 year old and nobody tough me anything. Good luck!
2007-03-16 08:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss comes naturally, dont worry it just happens,
Its well worth the wait!
2007-03-16 08:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Manc 07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meh, I freaked out on my first kiss because I didn't know it was coming. The trick is to relax. Let him know beforehand, once you know for sure that he's planning to kiss you. You'll be fine!!
2007-03-16 08:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i may only be in 6th grade but me and my frinds just read your question and heres are advice, if the guy is trully a nice guy he won't laugh and if you really like him then just kiss him and you'll be fine trust me my friend has kissed many guys before and she knows this kinda stuf so don't worry about it
2007-03-16 08:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by bubblesx221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to kiss a guy on the first date...chances are he wont even try. but if he does and you wanna go for it..just go for it! its not difficult. I remember my first kiss. I was a freshman in highschool and he was a jr. i didnt even know what i was doing but i went for it and he told me that i was a good kisser! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-16 08:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im with ya im 14 and never got asked out once and never kissed and my bro is 12 he gets asked out all the time life suxs
2007-03-16 08:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by sexmehayley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you wanted your first kiss to be with someone special and you think he is that special someone and that's why you waited for so long
2007-03-16 08:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by Peacen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋