they have also done things with this friend in the past when they were in different relationships. this old friend also wants to hang out alone w/ my bf and when it didnt happen she said she couldnt be friends w/ him anymore. but that now she has a boyfriend and she can hang out w/ him whats up with that?
2007-03-16 08:35:46 · 3 answers · asked by Amanda S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to tell your boyfriend that you are not comfortable with this girl. This girl sounds pretty immature, she could not hang out alone with your guy, so she was going to end their friendship? I think your boyfriend should find some new quality friends. This girl is OK with hanging out with your bf NOW?, because she has a boyfriend? What happens if she breaks up with her new boyfriend? I would not like this girl hanging out with my bf, even if she has a boyfriend. I think she could cause problems for you and your boyfriend. Tell him you really do not want him to hang around with her, and give him your reasons. If your boyfriend cares for you , he will respect your wishes. If he disagrees with you, I think your relationship is headed for trouble.You said that he loves you, but likes her?If so then there should be no problem with his decision. Good Luck!
2007-03-24 06:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, am I to infer from your question that you dropped all your friends when you met this guy? I mean totally dropped - not so much as a fair-thee-well?
If they were friends before he and you met, it's best you butt out. Don't you retain some friends to talk things out to kind of figure out where you are going? Did this "old friend" want to be alone in the bedroom with him or just out on the patio on a bench? There is a big difference you know.
You said it yourself, "the person you love, loves you but also likes . . . ." Are you being controlling and manipulative in your attitude towards this person? Sounds like you are treating them as a possession more than a person with a life outside of you.
Maybe that chat you refer to was how she came to have that boyfriend now. He could have told her how to be friends with this new guy - or if this new guy was good enough for her. Friends do that for each other. Yeah, he's OK or Nah, he'd hurt you in the end.
You don't know what's going on in his head and it is driving you nuts. Don't go there. You love him, he loves you. Let it go at that. You have your likes, he has his likes, let it go at that. Let him have some breathing room, I suspect he gives you your space when you need it. Good luck. Hope this helps.
2007-03-24 15:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm Beware of her! She obviously is hitting on him! Confront him.
2007-03-16 16:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋