Where should I take this girl out on a first date?

Question

I live in Prunedale California she lives in Salinas California I just want to know if a mall is okay to take a girl on a first date? If not where should I take her? What should I bring if any thing? Just help please!!!!!

Wow I am so suprised how many people are willing to help me. If I could I would choose all of yours as best answers. Thank you all so so much.

Oh and one more thing I have very little money!!!!! Sorry maybe that will help you answer it :-)

Answer 1

You don't give your ages, but it sounds like you're pretty young. Do NOT go to the mall and do NOT take her to a movie. Both are bad first dates. The mall is nothing special...just a hang out. Movie theatre is a no talking deal. Take her out to lunch or dinner depending on available resources...other possibilities are putt-putt, bowling (I personally hate it, but some like it), to a park for a little picnic lunch (your idea, you bring lunch), to spectate a sporting event (ONLY if she likes that sort of thing). Find out what she likes. If she doesn't have any suggestions, just make sure it's something she doesn't HATE!!! Good luck. You were smart to ask.

Answer 2

A mall is okay, as long as it's not one she usually hangs out at. Otherwise she might run into friends all the time. Places where there are a lot of other people will make her more comfortable. Just be sure to have a plan and not just wander aimlessly throughout the mall. Go to a restaurant in the mall, talk a little, ya know.

Answer 3

if you really like this girl wouldnt you like to go some where where you two can be alone where their arent a lot of people that could disrupt the date? i think if i was the girl i would like the dinner and a movie and possibly a walk in the park. the classics never fail. and their isnt much to bring but a wallet full of money and offer to pay for everything and most girls on the first date say that they will pay for half so let her make that offer and dont assume that she will because then you will lopok like a cheap jerk so let her make the offer.

Answer 4

I would say if your really into her take her to cannery row there you can have dinner or just walk through the little shops and along the beach its a very romantic first date

Answer 5

Take her out to Pizza and Laser Tag! And bring something goofey! On a first date, you should try to keep things simple because you want to keep everyone relaxed and happy, and your second date won't be too hard to top!

Answer 6

Try something unique...Try taking her to a very nice restaurant or a simple movie in the theater....even though your idea is cool....Mall is girl's favorite place..instead o fbuying something for her,make something for her....Give her a photoframe with her picture in it....try something sweet and nice...something that comes from the heart

Answer 7

Yo, bro, my advice and you don't have to take it but...I've always had sucess with girls, at the olive garden. Really, its romantic, nice "Italian" atmoshphere and most chicks dig Italian food. Not too expensive, but not crappy looking either. I'm tellin' ya, works everytime.

Good luck, dude!

Answer 8

Take her to the library for about 30 mins to 1 hr then i'd take her to the mall for about 30 mins,....then I'd put her on the bus with me....if she asks "where are we going?" u tell her that we're just goin to the store&u gotta pick something up(But the truth is: youre really takin her back to your place)

to answer the other question,...u need to bring:Condoms

Answer 9

well, id say maybe the mall, then out to dinner, then the movies..so romantic! but perfect for a first date!

Answer 10

there is plenty of places just choose. beach or restaurant or park or disco that depends where u like to go with her quite place or lowed place and take a red rose with u.

good luck.