like two different guys please can i have your opinion who you would start dating? well
Darren he is 22 i am 17 he lives near me and has already done uni and we get along well although i think he likes me we defiantly flirt. I have known him for about 8 years he is a friend of my brother. I am really quite attracted to him.
Rhys he is 18 and we catch the same bus to college, i met him about a month ago. he is really into me (he told me) but he is goint o america this summer then to uni in london about 2 hour train journey! i am not quite so attracted to him because he is younger but nice person.
Which one? or neither what would you do? xx
2007-03-16 08:29:15 · 36 answers · asked by Zalia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally i think you've already picked darren.... go with darren...
2007-03-16 08:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by emma d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with whoever you feel like you are more attracted to. I think you are better off with Darren because you know him already and he lives near you. For Rhys, you would have to deal with the long distance relationship, which is hard and you may get tired of it soon, especially if you need physical attention. Besides you arent quite attracted to him anyway. So, go with Darren!
2007-03-16 08:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not going to have an opportunity to get to know the second person better, I would chose the first one.
In 8 years you have to know the good and the bad about him. If you haven't been turned off by now, chances are he might be a good choice.
However, the final choice may hinge on the first thing I mentioned. The other one may be equally as good a choice but, without genuinely getting to know him, I would definitely think twice!
Love, Sarah
2007-03-16 08:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you read your own question, you've already decided upon Darren. As you said, Rhys is young, still in college and about to move away and you've only known him a month. What's to think about? Date Darren.
2007-03-16 08:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`d Stick With Daren!
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2007-03-16 08:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh to be young again!! At the end of the day your only young have fun.I think though that you should go with Darren for now (but will your brother beat him up) Honestly though do you want to travel to London at weekends.You want to have fun.Think about it!!!!
2007-03-16 09:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never have to settle for your second choice. if you like darren as much as you say, then it'll be no problem telling the other guy that you like someone else. besides rhys is going elsewhere, long distance, and you don't seem to like him in a dateable way. go for darren if that's what you want.
2007-03-16 08:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would probally pick darren even though he is about five years older than u but u have known him for eight years and ur attracted to him so just start dating him. and tell rhys that u just want to stay friends with him right now.
hope i helped. good luck
2007-03-16 08:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go with your heart - I think in your heart you like Darren just a tad more - and since you've known him, you know what he is pretty much like, ya know?
Plus, you can ask your bro to fill you in on how he treats girls.
Good Luck
I always go for the older guy - usually they are more mature.
USUALLY!! lol!!
2007-03-16 08:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
Simple answer
Make your choice and stick to it! Remember if you cheat it will be done back to you at some stage in your life!
Have a good heart and treat people as you would like to be treated! Make a grown up choice!
Regards
idai
2007-03-16 08:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by idai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur torn and u lyk darren better cuz ur describing him as a better boyfriend so u want ppl 2 tell u that darren is better u lyk him more go out with daren (my best friend just had this issue)
2007-03-17 13:14:20 · answer #11 · answered by *_Anni3_* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋