im 15, and im with an older guy does he love me or is he using me because when we first started dating he was lovely and kind and caring but now he doesnt seem intrested is it over?
2007-03-16 08:22:13 · 6 answers · asked by jenkinz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would make sure he isn't getting any on the side. I had the very same thing when I was 15. I was dating an 18 year old, he was great inthe beginning, so caring, treated me right, and even made me promise to save myself for my husband...I did! But he couldn't wait that long...while he talked about marriage, kids, and how he couldn't wait to wake up next to me every morning, he was the one that couldn't wait until marriage. Needless to say we broke up and I saved myself for my husband...he found the first thing in a skirt and now has a baby with no wedding ring!
2007-03-16 08:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem with having a relationship at that age with an older guy is that he can do things that you can't. That gets old after a while to a guy. If he's not acting like he's interested anymore than its most likely because he's not. Let it go and move on. Your to young to be settling for a some one who dont appreciate you. Find someone your own age and do things with him that you both can do and enjoy together.
2007-03-16 15:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, okk, how much older is he? cuz i mean, if hes 16 or 17 then id think thats not so big a deal. but if he is 18 or over then i dont think you should have gone out with him. look into all possible answers before you start thinking about ending it, he could be distracted by work, family problems, or home problems that you dont know about. but if none of that is it, it may be over, and im sorry hun, but he might have used you. but if he did, hes a looser and you are young and have the world ahead of you. so dont worry about it.
2007-03-16 15:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by dandaman3523 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably in it for the virgin factor. He was probably your first and he has probably told all his friends about it. Now that the novelty is worn off he will pay less and less attention to you until you go away. Its a shitty thing to do to someone....but thats the nuts right there.
2007-03-16 15:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by joeinchino2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup
2007-03-16 15:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by shanakon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably, especially if you feel like it is
2007-03-16 15:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by ambrosius15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋