I told my boyfriend that he needs to prove to me that he loves me. I asked him if he could prove to me by just finding 10 minutes in his day to see me. I don't know if I did the right thing or not please help me.
2007-03-16 08:21:08 · 41 answers · asked by vcchick05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you did...I hope he can find 10 minutes for you ...You deserve at least that.....:)
2007-03-16 08:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by kows4sale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person can't prove they love you just by taking 10 minutes out of their day for you. Any guy can take 10 minutes and spend with you and then turn around and be with another girl the rest of the day. His actions is what will prove to you that he loves you. And if you need him to prove it that bad then you need to find another way of him doing it or there's a chance that he dont if your doubting him that much.
2007-03-16 08:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there are special circumstances, I would think that your boyfriend would try to see you as much as he could or at least often. Sometimes, however, there are reasons which keep us from doing this... very good reasons. AS long as he does not have good reasons for not seeing you everyday like you two live far from each other or he doesn't have a car then he should TRY to see you often. Just realize that things do come up and give him slack for something he can't control but if it is between seeing you or the guys or if you two go to the same school then he should be able to see you... in fact, he should already want to see you. I think you are a youngr person and he hopefully is to. If this is the case then both of youare learning about being in a relationship which requires both understanding and commitment. he should be committed and you should be understanding.
2007-03-16 08:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't he prove it to you in other ways? Doesn't he listen to you? Doesn't he talk to you? Doesn't he get you cards on special days? Doesn't he tell you he loves you? How does him taking 10 minutes out of a busy day to see you prove it more then what he already does? If he is just sitting at his place with nothing to do and doesn't want to come over if there isn't something in it for him I can see this, but demanding something like this from a guy who is truly busy is riddiculus and immature.
2007-03-16 08:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need him to prove to you that he loves you because you're not convinced that he does, then he probably doesn't. Instincts tend to be very reliable about that sort of thing. And if he does as you asked and makes that time, will you really be convinced that he loves you, or will it just seem like he did what you asked because you basically gave him no choice, or you put him on the spot? He needs to prove that he loves you in other ways than how you tell him to, and if he doesn't, you're better off with someone who appreciates you more.
2007-03-16 08:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can finding 10 minutes to spend with you prove anything? If you have doubts about his love, you need to find out if it's your problem or if there is really something to question.
He shouldn't need to be forced to spend time with you. That is a red flag right there.
2007-03-16 08:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by DragonWrites the Fire Faery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all he had to do to prove his "love" for you was to find 10 min. in the day to see you then you've got problems.
Would that have done it? Would him finding 10min. in the day to spend with you ACTUALLY PROVE to you that he REALLY loves you? Maybe for that 10min. and a few minutes afterwards. What about later?
Once you start asking someone to "prove" their love for you; where does it end?
2007-03-16 08:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by RockHanger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you did the right thing! If he isn't already finding 10 minutes if his day to see you, he's the one not doing the right thing!
2007-03-16 08:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it only takes 10 minutes of his time to prove that he loves you? gee asking a lot there lol jk. Well, unless hes a really busy guy, or lives far away.
Good luck-
2007-03-16 08:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Slevin Kelevra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that you may have done wrong is not staying something sooner! If your guy wont even make time to see you then theres a problem and you shouldnt feel guilty asking for more.
Good luck--things will work out...dont feel bad for standing up for yourself!
2007-03-16 08:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then no. If someone has to prove their love or ask for it to be proven, it is over.
This isn't the dark ages. Is he supposed to go out and slay a dragon? If he picked up his socks and brushed the snow off your car, he loves you.
2007-03-16 08:26:35 · answer #11 · answered by tammy_anderson68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋