I LIKE HIM .... think its infatuation,we met only once and often talk online,he is so sweet and good by heart.We both are married....but I also feel he likes me too...I have never felt for someone like this,he is on my mind all time and cant forget him even for 1 sec...please tell
2007-03-16 08:19:27 · 13 answers · asked by Jenna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What you need to do is ask yourself what's so wrong with your marriage that your mind and heart is with this other guy. It sounds like infatuation, but nip it in the bud before this turns into an emotional affair because it could lead to a sexual affair.
Oh, yeah. Don't tell him that he's on your mind all the time. Doing that will get you into more trouble than it's worth. Many blessings.
2007-03-16 09:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is only infatuation then no...your feelings should pass. You have other people feeling to account for. What about your husband or his wife. So unless you are ready for the consequences that come along with this than no. you are putting marriages in jeopardy, and unless you are prepared to end you marriage you shouldn't entertain this. What you are doing is cheating. Not in the sense that you are sleeping around or anything, but you concentration has drifted from you marital spouse, to another man. So unless you are ready for all the consequences then I say don't do it and you should really stop talking to him.
2007-03-16 08:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by dsmd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're infatuated with an illusion. You think he's all these great things, but the reality is you have no idea. It's so easy to say all the right things online. Have some respect for your respective marriages before you ruin them both.
2007-03-16 09:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - He's married; you're married. Grow up and be a decent person to your husband instead of feeding a stupid infatuation with someone you barely know.
2007-03-16 08:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take a cold shower and forget him!!!
You didn't say whether you have children or if he has children but I suppose that you both do. Is a fling in a cheap motel worth both of your marriages and the futures of your children?
2007-03-16 08:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by don n 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie "unfaithful" -- with Richard Gere.
You are probably bored with your marriage and are falling in love with your image of another person.
2007-03-16 08:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by poweranni 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People you meet on-line lie. Get over him and be a wife.
2007-03-16 10:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by Ohhh It's Me!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! ur jsut digger ur self a deeper hole. if u like him more than ur husband then ummmm..........u could get a divorece but make sure the guy u like likes you back and also gets a divorece. jsut dont cheat on ur spouses.
2007-03-16 08:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by ~CarterRose~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course, tell "Him" and his wife and your husband. I am certain your respective spouses would be delighted with your on-line antics.
2007-03-16 08:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
for Gods sake you are both married, why the hell don't you act like it both of you!!
2007-03-16 08:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋