My boyfriends mom does not like me for some reason, shes always making up stuff about me, she says i dress slutty even though i dont. she makes up stuff like that i came over to her house and spread my legs wide open w/ a skirt on and thats not true at all im more respectibul then that. Then she will come to our house and make my boyfriend come outside to talk to her but she wont come in and she says i keep her from seeing my daughter. well shes the one that wont come in. shes been in our house once and we have lived here for a year. i also dont want my daughter at her house b/c she sits around and does drugs. i dont want my daughter in that enviroment. she has done nothing but cause me and my boyfriend to fight b/c he dont want to stick up for me b/c he dont want in the middle of it. he thinks that some of the stuff she says and does is just fine but its not!!!! what should i do, i dont think i can live in the same town as her any longer,shes going to end up breaking us up!
2007-03-16 08:17:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. Tough situation. Your boyfriend needs to wake up! If his mom is doing drugs, she is obviously the worst problem in the scenario. If your boyfriend only believes his mother and is turning his shoulder on the fact that she has a drug problem, then he has a major problem too. He should be putting his mother in rehab, and listening to what you have to say.
You are very smart to keep your daughter out of that environment. Tell your boyfriend he's a wimp for not standing up for you and not getting involved with settling a very serious problem. If he's not willing to stand up to his mother and take care of this problem, he won't be able to handle other problems that will inevitably happen in the future. You would be wise to give him an ultimatum for him to either handle the problem and get his mother some help, or you will be on your way.
You deserve much better than this and so does your daughter. If you stay with him, I am afraid you are only headed for a heartbreak. Best of luck!
2007-03-16 08:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Coach T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i agree wif u 4 keepin ur daughter out of that enviroment. ur a good mom. and just tell ur boyfriend how u feel about his mom and maybe he will yalk to her. i also agree wif da 1st guy..ur bf is a whimp 4 not sticking up 4 u. hope this helped.
2007-03-17 19:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋