Before you get mad, I'm not insulting I'm just saying; This guy wrote something to me that really made me think. Never in my life would I have thought that the possibility exists that girls probably want guys to "lose."
2007-03-16 07:59:32 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've writen countless advice on this subject...
2007-03-16 07:59:52 · update #1
Ignore the detail above, this is what I'm talking about.
DON'T LISTEN TO WOMEN...
There advice is usually no good...
Never ask a women, and alot of guys don't know either...
Only guys who know how to play the game are a success with women...
Why do guys feel they have to "break down" and ask a women how she feels about them???
This is WUSSIE behaviour...
A guy who is SECURE with himself does not ask a woman these questions...
Women tell guys to do this because they like when a guy asks them out, so they can have the POWER...
when you ask a woman out or tell her your feelings, you have just given your power away... and usually at this point IT'S OVER....
Where is the challenge for her???
ALL WOMEN WANT A CHALLENGE...
where is the mystery?
ALL WOMEN LIKE MYSTERY...
where is the intrigue?
ALL WOMEN LIKE INTRIGUE...
You throw all of that out the window when you ask her out, or tell her how you feel...
You don't hold the ACE CARDS anymore..
2007-03-16 08:01:38 · update #2
Women give the worst advice, I think they like seeing guys squirm, and they tell their male friends to do this all of the time, or on forums like this...
YOU HAVE TO BE A CHALLENGE TO A WOMAN, IF YOU WANT HER TO RESPECT YOU, AND WANT YOU...
For instance...
You are hanging out with a chick, and she is calling you, and in some cases, having sex with you...
SO WHY DO GUYS HAVE TO BREAK DOWN AND BLOW THE CHALLENGE, MYSTERY, AND INTRIGUE, BY TELLING HER HOW THEY FEEL, OR ASKING HER HOW SHE FEELS...????
If you are enjoying time together she obviously likes you on some level...
2007-03-16 08:02:03 · update #3
Also, alot of women will tell a guy after awhile how they feel...
For instance... she'll say... I think I am falling for you, or in live with you...
What will guys do...???
LOL
I've done it, and lost three women, after falling for this ploy...
IT IS JUST ANOTHER TEST...
I told the three women in question that I was feeling the same way, etc...
In all cases it was over...
Phone calls ignored, and in two cases....
Messages saying I think we are moving too fast...
And it was over...
AND THEY ARE THE ONES WHO SAID THEY WERE FALLING IN LOVE WITH ME...
EXPLAIN THAT???
Women test a man for strength... IF YOU FAIL THE TEST, OR TESTS... YOU'RE FINISHED, OR YOU'LL HEAR... "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS"... THE MOST DREADED WORDS IN THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE THAT A WOMAN COULD TELL A GUY....
Women mature faster than men, when it comes to playing the relationship game...
while guys are playing cops, robbers, cowboys, and indians, as kids, little girls are playing relationship games, and house..
2007-03-16 08:02:57 · update #4
They are far more advanced than men, we have to learn THE HARD WAY...
Anyway, women give this advice because they are looking out for other women....
And guys give the advice, because they are looking out for other men...
The guys who give the advice to tell you, to tell her how you feel, have NO CLUE ABOUT WOMEN AT ALL...
Anyway, don't listen to women and the advice they give, it's garbage...
If you like a chick, don't tell her...
And don't ever ask a chick out on a date...
YOU ARE HANGING OUT...
The word date is not a good one...
Don't ask women out, or if they want to go out with you, etc... this is what the nice guy losers with women do...
when you are with a woman, just go for it, at the appropriate time...
Get her laughing, and having fun, and get the KINO going...
kino,is where you are touching her, and she is touching you....
Shoulder touches, etc...
Also, remember, women are touchers...
2007-03-16 08:03:37 · update #5
None of this is from me, its what this guy told me and it got me thinking about it
2007-03-16 08:17:46 · update #6
I don't. I think we give advice from our perspective, but we've never been men, so we really don't know what you guys go through. In general, I don't think women as a rule want men to "lose". The guy that was babbling about "power" seems a little immature to me. Some relationship are about power, sure, depends on what you want from the exchange. I think tho, a good relationship is being with a person and having a good ebb and flow, working together for common goals. You both have "power" over certain things. The challenge is giving in to the other person when you know they're right.
2007-03-16 08:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a mcp!
tell you what i feel...
the days for dominating males are over...
snag are taking over....
so if you wanna continue upholding the male ego to 100% and leave NO stands for us women...
pray that a snag doesnt comes into your woman's view...
if not, you would not even have the chance to touch that ace card anymore....
and no, we do not want to see guys lose.... stop making women sounds so perverse cause we're NOT.
frankly speaking i think you're having a problem with women... dont drag other guys down with you, will ya?
guys, if you like this girl, you HAVE to ask her out on a date asap... do not wait for christmas or Vday or new year or wadeva....
2007-03-16 15:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ori-Hime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all let me be honest and say that I didn't read "all" of your little book here. I skimmed it because it is WAY too long. Don't be surprised if you don't get too many answers on this one.
Just let me say this... I don't give bad advice to guys. If I can help I try to do the best I can for male or female.
2007-03-16 15:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by M.S. Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if I followed all that. But, to comment, I don't give advice based on sex. Male or female, I do my best to help them out with the question asked.
2007-03-16 15:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no us girls don't always give men bad advice it depends on how stupid your questions are!
love,
killerqueen
2007-03-16 15:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by killerqueen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls rule!!!
2007-03-16 15:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by *mommy to 3 boys* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋