Ok I have a 9-year-old brother and a 5-year-old sister, and they HATE each other. My sister ('Elly') and my brother ('Reilly') fight 24/7/365!!! They fight over the SMALLEST LITTLE THINGS and I need peace, when I come home to visit from college it is CHAOS!!!
Please help me, why do they hate each other????
2007-03-16 07:57:08 · 10 answers · asked by sonder 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's is normal for them to fight. It's what brother's and sister's do. I have 6 younger brothers and sisters, and believe me they don't all get along. My youngest sister is 4 and she is always wanting to play with my 8 year old sister. So much so that they start fighting. What I do is have the younger one go and get some toys that she likes to play with and all 3 of us sit and play with the toys. When you are home try and spend some more time with them and talk to them. Ask them why they start fighting over the little things. When they start fighting over toys or something have one of them go and get their toys and go into a different area of the room to play. I hope this helps.
2007-03-16 08:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that comes from it being PERMITED to start with
If this is allowed then ther eis not much you can do. EXCEPT when you come home stay at a friends,
If asked why you are not staying at home
Then say politel
In teh time I have been away from home I have gotten use tot eh quiet adn I am sorry but you all ack like kids with this bickering adn Till It stops... for my own peace of mind I will be staying at ... whom evers house
But this is got to be stopped by the parent or parents.
And the children is not at all too young to get help from a pastor or youth advisor on the way they treat each other and get their act together... I had seven brothers and sure we fought but not like that. If we did our parents would have wore our butts out... We knew better I hate to hear this in siblings, My brothers and I are great friends who love each other deeply, we have lost 2 of them in the last 4 years and it is a great loss to each of us left behind with out them in our lifes
And Hey hang in there
2007-03-16 15:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not really hate its just called being brother and sister. i went through it with my lil bro and big sis too i was always in the middle. they grow out of it and soon will become friends. and since their young enough you can put a lil dicipline down and timeouts. or make them hold hands for 5 mins or sit facing each other and have them say something nice about each other for a while. they have to learn to get along. but i would diffently lay the SMACK down on them when you go home and tell them "hey this is how its going to be when im home"
2007-03-16 15:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel i have a 9 year old brother and he never leaves me alone! Do they just fight about via i get to go 2 the store with mom this time. Maybe you should spend some time with them when your home and maybe it will cause less kaos!
Or ask why there fighting.
2007-03-16 15:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by LadyJaguars16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All siblings fight its not uncommon and I dont think they hate each othersometimes siblings just fight cause they love fighting theres no cure. All you can do is wait till' they get older. Sorry I couldnt be more of a help.
2007-03-16 15:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for them to fight- get use to it because its a phase, try to cope with it because it will help you deal with the situation when you marry and have kids of your own.
2007-03-16 15:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal because brothers and sisters fight/fuss all the time.
I should know.
2007-03-16 15:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by astateson111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your parents never instilled respect for one another into them.
2007-03-16 15:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal thing lock them in the atic will help
2007-03-16 14:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell them
2007-03-16 15:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋