someone I know who knows i am in college and has kept up with me the whole way through told me they were proud of me. it was as if they felt they had played some part in this successful endeavor. they have their own children, why don't they tell them this instead of me. it would be closer to home as i am not related to this person. are they expecting any sort of returns in the future?
2007-03-16 07:35:52 · 4 answers · asked by centery 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No they're just commenting that your life is worthy of praise and they are proud of themselves for knowing a successful person like you. That's what it means, basically that they are proud to be part of your circle of friends, and knowing you is all the reward they could ask for. Don't get offended they're proud of themselves not you.
2007-03-16 10:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny Afman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. I don't think the phrase is overused. I've used them before, but I reserve that phrase for when it's appropriate. I don't overuse it with my kids or with anyone else.
I don't think this person necessarily felt that they were playing a part...I think they felt an appreciation that you had been as successful as you had.
Many people are aching to hear "I'm proud of you," and never do, while you are complaining that you're hearing it. What a different perspective!
2007-03-16 14:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!
I didn't think anyone could be more self centered.
He/She is proud of you because of what you have accomplished ...perhaps because they didn't (a supposition of course but still ) It's their way to be Congratulatory.
As far as returns in the future it again is bidding you good luck for your future.
2007-03-16 14:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by CarynB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and also...'good job.' That sure is over-used also.
2007-03-16 14:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋