he has a gf who is expecting a kiddie, but he doesn't really love her. We've kissed and stuff but nothing else and only when we've bin drinking togever cos we're good mates and go out quite a bit. I don't know what to do cos I dunno if I find him fisically attractive at all but I am totally in lust with him (if u get my meaning), he's got a great personality but I can't figure out y I'm doing this.
I'm the 1 that's encouraging this and it's not fair on his missus, and I know he can't resist me so I keep getting him drunk and taking advantage of him! Why am I doing this, what's the matter wiv me?!
I split wiv me bloke after a couple of yrs, a few weeks ago...
2007-03-16 07:34:16 · 5 answers · asked by Violet De'ath 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wanna point out - I am not a slapper!
Thanx to all u guys who have put genuine ansas. Feel bad enuff wivout people calling me a slapper too....
2007-03-16 08:15:03 · update #1
my advice would be stop doing it. you want to have him to prove that men still want you and he obviously does. when you feel like doing it again think of his gf and how you would feel if she found out and lost the baby as a result of stress.
2007-03-16 07:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by spongebobs biggest fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did eaxctly this when I was 18, split up with my fella of 2yrs then stated seeing some one else (nothing thers only lust - totally) then when I saw sense and got back with my boyfreind and we've now been together 8 years (married 4) If I could go back now I would take it all back I was horrible and really hurt him but I can't so I'd suggest you calm it down until you know what you really want (don't forget with someone else it wil always seem more exciting cos it's new but i will soon ware out and you'll be left regretting it)
2007-03-16 07:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Curious-This is bugging me!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a rebound thing for you, if it's only been a few weeks since your last relationship ended. It's hard to be single and alone after a long relationship!
But have some respect for yourself -- you don't sound like you're happy doing this sort of thing, so just stop. Find someone who is single and do some dating, ease your way back into the flow of single life. But this guy, who is already attached and whom you're not sure you're even attracted to... just let him go.
2007-03-16 07:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all about the lust, trust me!! I split up with my fella, n suddenly realised how fit our mate was so we had our fun but nothing else was going to come of it cos we cudnt face hurtin our friend (my ex). it was fun while it lasted but not worth it in the end hun!!!
2007-03-16 08:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by xXxabzxXx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rebound u dont want him u want someone coz u aint gotten use to being single yet
2007-03-16 08:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by kezz247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋