How to say I'm sorry?
..a person i met 3 years ago told me he want only sex with me,i told him ok (but what I really needed is more than just sex).I said one thing and I was acting other thing.I was pushing him all the time to be with me.I was sending him sms every day.It lasted all 3 years.Now he is not here for me anymore,he changed phone number.I feel bad cauz at that period I didnt felt that I was pushing him,I felt I deserve to be with him.Now I know my mistake,that is not good to push.but I really miss time with him.How to tell him that Im sorry if I feel that he dont care for what I say?
2007-03-16 07:33:40 · 15 answers · asked by blackvioletred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you stalked him! Sorry, but I don't think this one is coming back. If I were you, and I really wanted to show him that I was sorry, I'd leave him alone. Give yourself some time to grow from this and then if you still feel like apologizing, send him a letter and apologize...but be sure you're not writing passive aggressively. Good luck!
2007-03-16 07:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Shelly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake was telling him it was o.k just to have sex. Always be honest about what you feel. Of course he is not going to care what you say. He has already gotten what he wanted. Now after three years hes probably tired of it. Just give up on him and learn from your mistakes next time around. You seem like a nice girl. There is a lot other guys out there who are not asses.
2007-03-24 07:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is already traumatized by you so just don't bother to tell him I'm sorry. Besides you miss him and more than likely you will have the tendancy to continue something with him and this is only toxic for you. Try moving on and be strong.
2007-03-23 21:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by It's about the Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, never have sex with a guy if he says that's all he wants. As a female, sex means more to us, and you will get hurt.
Second, he isn't interested in you, you don't need to say sorry, let it go. Go on with your life and find a good guy to get to know and date.
2007-03-16 07:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by toomeymimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go , he doesn't want to be with you anymore and saying I'm sorry will not change things. You made a mistake so learn from that and go on with your life
2007-03-16 07:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, that's the best way he'll remember you one day and think of you. Then, you show your pride and then he starts running after you.
men are hunters. let them hunt you, don't hunt them yourself. Stay in your own cocoun, where you'll find better people than himself!
2007-03-16 07:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by Spark S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, dont say anything, you already messed it up! You are sounding like a fatal attraction. Prove me wrong!
2007-03-24 05:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by highly_favored 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he used you for sex.
if he liked you for anything other than sex he would be talking to you.
you should be friends with someone else.
you do not owe him an apology - especially if it's just a way for you to try to get him to like you more.
he sounds like trash.
2007-03-16 07:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to him, and talk about the new rules of friendship
2007-03-23 15:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Punjabi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to contact you he would. Leave this one in the past.
2007-03-16 07:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋