It's about my bf....
well i'm 22 and i've lived with my mom until age 21...
now i live with my grandma... so i'm still living at home
you can say...
the thing is that my bf wants me to live with him and i
really love him, but i am so scared!!
I've been staying over lately, but I know that i can go
home anytime.
He wants it official though... and also things with my grandma
aren't going so well .... I don't know what to do..
it scares me so much... I don't know if I'm ready for this
big commitment! what if as soon as i move in we get in a fight
where would i go? my friend told me that that's the kind of
risk you have to take in life but i don't know what to think?
can someone tell me what should I do about this? thanks!!
2007-03-16 07:22:04 · 6 answers · asked by andrea p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move in... you can move out or stay at ur grams if things go sour,
2007-03-16 07:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by munsee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you what to do. You have to make this choice on your own. Yes it is a scary choice to make. To stay in your safety net so to speak or to take the jump? The choice is yours maybe you need to try a trial move in thing where you see how it goes. Take it slow and don't make it to official. Start with just taking a few things to his place and then slowly taking the rest. You might even want to move to a place that is new for both of you so it feels more like both of yours then just his.
2007-03-16 14:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Karma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get a place of your own first before you thnk about moving in with anyone else. Not only because your of age but because yo need to be comfortable with living by yourself. Something you never done. You have to feel independent and free before you live with your boyfriend because that is a big step next to marriage. Become comfortable with yourself and your on space before you share someone elses :)
2007-03-16 15:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Shanysky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready for this or feel comfortable about this then don't do it. Explain this to your bf. In the meantime try and work things out with your grandmother because you only get one.
2007-03-16 14:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you what you should do, you have to take risks in life to get anywhere, if you have somewhere to go if it doesnt worrk out what have you got to lose? i moved 200 miles away, only known him 3 months, quit a great job, moved away from friends and family and 3 years on im still here
2007-03-16 14:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Charlotte S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh...well try telling ur bf that u need to stay with ur grandmother for a while because she needs you. he'll understand. trust me. if he didn't then he isn't a very good bf then now is he? anyway, i hope things go well. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-16 14:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by LiveLaughLoveDance♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋