2 days ago, my boyfriend was supposibly drinking with some friends...when i called him i ask why he didnt answer his phone..and he told me that he was with this girl he met...his cousin, his cousins boyfriend, the girl, and his little brother.. they were all in his cousin's house drinking...he said he like her alot...and she is cool and then he told me her name..her age...etc...but the thing is that i dont know if to believe him...because the next day i called he didnt let me say anything and he apologize for saying he what he said the night before...he said he had lied..just because....he was sorry and didnt want for me to stop talking to him...yet after what he told me..i still have that little thing making me think what if it is true about him meeting this girl...what should i do ?? can someone help???
2007-03-16 07:20:01 · 16 answers · asked by aaaaaaaarrrrrrrr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alcohol is like a truth serum. people tend to spill their guts when their drinking, and most of it the truth.
2007-03-16 07:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had liked this boy for a while and one night we were at a party and he was drunk and he told me that he liked me but i didn't know if he was serious or not. he asked me to be his girlfriend and i told him no. the next day he called me and he remembered EVERYTHING, he said that he was telling the truth and that he had feelings for me, that just showed that guys do tell the truth when theyre drunk BUT they can also say some dumb things that aren't tru too. U have to talk this tru with ur bf, I think that if u really trust him then ull let this go
2007-03-16 07:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by Crazilicous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be true and the fact may be he stuck his foot in his mouth and let the truth out. Why because when you drink it lets your inhibitions down which means your more open and let things slip out that normally you would not say or do because your more reserved when your sober.
I am thinking he did meet someone why else would he be precise on the age name and things like that. Not unless he gets mean when he drinks which may just mean he was trying to hurt you but who wants the head games anyway?! I would take a break from this guy.
2007-03-16 07:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, when a person is drinking (being drunk and saying things is not a sex (m/f) oriented it comes from either sex) they normally say things that they have often thought of saying or do things that they feel like doing regardless of the consequences. If you feel as though he is cheating or looking for a way out then he probably is. Women have wonderful intuition. My husband cheated on me and I definitely knew it, but I loved him so much that I turned my head and looked the other way and ended up getting hurt time after time. So my advice is if you feel something is wrong than it probably is so do something about it.
2007-03-16 07:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From past experience.... a drunk will always tell the truth... so chance are that is exactly what he was thinking at that time.... he later realized that was something that he should not have said to you which is why he was apologizing to you before you could even say anything... good luck to you.....
2007-03-16 07:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting drunk can do alot of things to people's minds and you should probably belive him because if he actually said he was sorry and told you that he was lieing then you should tell hi to cut off a ittle with the drink situation.
2007-03-16 07:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by astateson111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk people tell the truth. Alcohol just has that effect on people. The like he told was the one the next day. I'm serious. I've never seen a drunk person lie. I've seen drunk people be too honest, like in your situation.
2007-03-16 07:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much he had to drink. They say alcohol is truth serum. So if he was buzzed enough he might just be telling the truth and now that the buzz and fun is gone of course he doesnt want to loose you so he is gonna say he made it up.
2007-03-16 07:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that guys (and girls) tend to speak the truth when they are drunk. Simply because they do not think about what they say before they say it. I do not know what to suggest that you do, but I wouldn't believe him when he tells you he was lying to you the night before when he told you that he was hanging out with that girl and he likes her.
2007-03-16 07:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea most times alchohol makes people tell the truth about their feelings, but that sound slike it could also just be him saying shes a cool girl but i could be wrong. also when ppl are drunk they sometimes just say whatever comes to their mind. if he found her a little bit attractive he might just say he likes her and later when he sobers up he could think shes is the ugliest girl in the world.
2007-03-16 07:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by 12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont like drinking with other people because I start talking about Iraq. It was a whole different world over there, and no one can understand it unless they have been there.
2007-03-16 07:25:15 · answer #11 · answered by ringshank1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋