help!!!!!!!?

Question

I'm 18 and emotionally everything screwed up i'm always crying and i'm not sure what to do about my boyfriend or ex boyfriend i dont even know what he is i broke up with him but i cant trust him and i have been told not to get back with him and i might not graduate and i dont live with ANY of my REAL family like they are my family but its like not my real one and my best friend died almost 3 yrs ago and i have not had a realy friend since then and sometimes i think about O.D. on my meds i need advice

Answer 1

You definitely need to seek professional help. Try going to the a department that deals with these kinds of issues. The best advice that I could give you is to NOT return with your ex boyfriend, especially since you don't trust him. I am really sad about your story, and I hope everything goes well in your life. Never think about ending your life, no matter what is happening. This is only a champter of your life, things may become better. Just have hope.

Answer 2

Well, from one crazy person to another....

Where there is breath there is hope.

If you cannot trust that guy youre talking about, then leave him alone. NEVER mess with people you cannot trust, because they will hurt you over and over again untill they destroy you, or untill you just hate them. People dont just suddenly become trustworthy, they either are or they arent, and when they arent you should just put them in the past, because no good can come of them.

If you are really worried about graduating school you should talk to whoever is gonna fail you and tell them that you are serious about school and that you wanna pass really bad. Usually this makes teachers have a little compassion and theyll usually help you out with extra credits and stuff. If you still can't pass, even with extra credit, and the people who run the school won't help, then accept it and go back next year, or go to a community college and take a GED, or go to an online school where you get a real diploma. Any of these options will get you into college, and you should definetly go to college.

I dunno what kind of meds they have you on, but I've seen good friends completely fall apart from taking the **** they prescribe for depression. I can't tell you to stop taking your meds, but a couple weeks without them might make you feel like a new person. If youre truly insane, then stopping your meds might really screw you up, but if you are just depressed then maybe the meds are just making it worse. Chemically repressing your emotions can't be good for you.

Family is hard to give advice on, so I'm not gonna. But I will say this, I have a ton of relatives, and three family members, the hard part was telling the difference between them.

What would you like to do tomorrow? I mean, within reason what would you enjoy doing to pass the day away? It's saturday, no school... If you have a little money and a way to get from where you are to where you wanna be, then you can go do something fun for you - whatever that is...
I'm serious. Just blow it all off for one day and screw everybody else. It may save your soul. Skip your meds on saturday, forget your commitments and problems, and go someplace where there are other people your age, like an 18 and up club (don't get drunk or anything though), or a local festival (music festivals are really fun, if you can afford the price), I don't really know you, so it's hard to say where you would like to go, or what you'd like to do... Maybe just a day in the park would be nice...
Either way, I think getting away from all the bullshit in your daily life would do you a lot of good, and you might just meet the man of your dreams, or at least a few new friends.

Oh yeah, and stop crying! Youre good.

Answer 3

Whatever you do, dont hurt yourself. Seek help from the school guidence office about things like that and for your graduation problems. About your boyfriend, you need to move on. Think positive and lay low for a while. I'm sorry about your friend, but nows a good time for looking for someone new to talk with or hangout with.
Don't jump to the O.D. thing, my younger brother just tryed that because some kids were picking on him at school and he couldnt take it. It was very stupid of him but those kids had no right.
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just trust me that there are better things in life than death.

Answer 4

After everything, meds, hypnosis, self-help books (which FEELING GOOD: The New Mood Therapy by David Burns is a really useful one). The most useful thing that I found was going to a Dianetics center.
They have practical solutions to everything. Let's say you were a person who never got anything done. They put you in a room and say "put that vase over there. Thank you. Now pick up that book and move it to the shelf. Thank you. Touch the wall. Thank you..." and now you've flooded your memory with a whole bunch of things you got done. They were insignificant things, but your subsconscious doesn't know the difference!
Engrams are the biggest enemy - it's like whenever you get hurt you're kind of in a trance and anything anyone says gets recorded and is taken literally. Like let's say YOU got knocked out, and in the process of getting you help someone says "This one's not going to be happy when they wake up." - and now you're unhappy.
There's a way to fix this, and I'm just starting so I'm not totally clear on how, but there are people who are.
Go to Dianetics.org. They can help. One day I want to be a Dianetic Auditor. I'm so pissed they never even mentioned this in college psychology.

Answer 5

Slow down hun thimk of about what you are saying you need to get help talk to someone i know you have to have someone you can talk 2... I was the same way not 2 longa ago my mom is reall y sick my sis dont even speak o the family my brother in into drugs alot and my other brother just is a lazy ***. i was the one supporting all of my family and still am but you now I thought of it this way if I wasnt around then what would happen to my family....I the one that is holding things together and I wouldn't want them to suffer any more...So what I am trying to say is that you need look at your life and find some kind of way to deal what u have and see how u can make things better...If you need a friend just give me a hollar and I will help you a s much as I can Email Me k

Answer 6

Ok first of all I feel sorry for you and all but you know there are people who are worse off then you. I know how you feel though because i have a brother who is addicted to drugs I was in the hospital watching him die, he lived but is now an alcholic and abusive to me and my mother. I live in a tiny apartment in the middle of no where, i have friends but cant trust most of them, I have a dad who lives ver far away and i rarely get to see him, my family is screwed up all we ever do is fight were on the verge of getting kicked out of our apartment because of our fighting and my brother. So yea i know its tough sometimes but you just have to move on get on with your life. I would suggest writeing your feelings down because that sometimes helps or talk to someone about it. What i like to do when im feeling down is listen to music, sit somewhere alone, and just think and sometimes cry.

Answer 7

I would suggest a professional diagnosis. If you are in college, they should have some free programs for you to find a person to talk to. Don't trust the answers you get on this forum, these people may not be qualified. The most important thing is to get into a mental state where you can start to tackle some of your problems, and in your current emotional state you might make them worse. If you can't see a professional, then choose someone wise who can help you deal with this flood of emotions. You can get better if you work at it!

Answer 8

I say start with your education and finish that first..You will have accomplished something and then will have the courage and strength to conquer the next step in your life..Without an education you will be worse off! Drama will only slow you down and I would like to think that the next generation would have their heads screwed on at least half way! TIME TO GROW UP !

Answer 9

please call this number we cant really help you on here 1-800-850-8078
its a free crisis hotline in the usa they will be able to talk to you.
remember always look to the future...think about years to come not whats always right in front of you smacking you in the face...
I know there can be a lot of pressure all at once sounds like i have been i the same situation before...foster parents??? dont worry youll get through
untill then us yahoo addicts are here

Answer 10

Well, take a deep breath. Pray everyday before you go to sleep for this not to ruin your life. You desevere a great life! Cheer up. Do calm yoga. It might sound funny but it helps. Or when you talk a bath have a radio and candles to rest your mind.