On a question I've asked a lot to get several different opinions (and it's helping progress move a lot forward to, thanks people), that has to do with whether or not to tell a girl my feelings about her, 98% of girls are like "Tell her, tell her!" and 99% of guys are like "No, don't do it!" Isn't that peculiar, interesting?
2007-03-16 07:14:46 · 7 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've writen countless advice on this subject...
DON'T LISTEN TO WOMEN...
There advice is usually no good...
Never ask a women, and alot of guys don't know either...
Only guys who know how to play the game are a success with women...
Why do guys feel they have to "break down" and ask a women how she feels about them???
This is WUSSIE behaviour...
A guy who is SECURE with himself does not ask a woman these questions...
Women tell guys to do this because they like when a guy asks them out, so they can have the POWER...
when you ask a woman out or tell her your feelings, you have just given your power away... and usually at this point IT'S OVER....
Where is the challenge for her???
ALL WOMEN WANT A CHALLENGE...
where is the mystery?
ALL WOMEN LIKE MYSTERY...
where is the intrigue?
ALL WOMEN LIKE INTRIGUE...
You throw all of that out the window when you ask her out, or tell her how you feel...
You don't hold the ACE CARDS anymore...
Women give the worst advice, I think they like seeing guys squirm, and they tell their male friends to do this all of the time, or on forums like this...
YOU HAVE TO BE A CHALLENGE TO A WOMAN, IF YOU WANT HER TO RESPECT YOU, AND WANT YOU...
For instance...
You are hanging out with a chick, and she is calling you, and in some cases, having sex with you...
SO WHY DO GUYS HAVE TO BREAK DOWN AND BLOW THE CHALLENGE, MYSTERY, AND INTRIGUE, BY TELLING HER HOW THEY FEEL, OR ASKING HER HOW SHE FEELS...????
If you are enjoying time together she obviously likes you on some level...
Also, alot of women will tell a guy after awhile how they feel...
For instance... she'll say... I think I am falling for you, or in live with you...
What will guys do...???
LOL
I've done it, and lost three women, after falling for this ploy...
IT IS JUST ANOTHER TEST...
I told the three women in question that I was feeling the same way, etc...
In all cases it was over...
Phone calls ignored, and in two cases....
Messages saying I think we are moving too fast...
And it was over...
AND THEY ARE THE ONES WHO SAID THEY WERE FALLING IN LOVE WITH ME...
EXPLAIN THAT???
Women test a man for strength... IF YOU FAIL THE TEST, OR TESTS... YOU'RE FINISHED, OR YOU'LL HEAR... "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS"... THE MOST DREADED WORDS IN THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE THAT A WOMAN COULD TELL A GUY....
Women mature faster than men, when it comes to playing the relationship game...
while guys are playing cops, robbers, cowboys, and indians, as kids, little girls are playing relationship games, and house...
They are far more advanced than men, we have to learn THE HARD WAY...
Anyway, women give this advice because they are looking out for other women....
And guys give the advice, because they are looking out for other men...
The guys who give the advice to tell you, to tell her how you feel, have NO CLUE ABOUT WOMEN AT ALL...
Anyway, don't listen to women and the advice they give, it's garbage...
If you like a chick, don't tell her...
And don't ever ask a chick out on a date...
YOU ARE HANGING OUT...
The word date is not a good one...
Don't ask women out, or if they want to go out with you, etc... this is what the nice guy losers with women do...
when you are with a woman, just go for it, at the appropriate time...
Get her laughing, and having fun, and get the KINO going...
kino,is where you are touching her, and she is touching you....
Shoulder touches, etc...
Also, remember, women are touchers...
They don't touch a guy they don't like...
So, while you have her laughing together, touch her shoulder... like a "punch tap'...
take it from there...
Does she touch you back???
keep it going...
If you know a woman who touches you... she likes you...
Touch them back...etc...
when the time is right, just move in for a KISS, and take it from there...
DO NOT DEFINE WHAT YOU TWO HAVE...
DON'T ASK HER HOW SHE FEELS OR IF YOU TWO ARE DATING OR NOTHING...
Just keep going out with her...
and hanging out...
If she asks how you feel, tell her that you enjoy hanging out and everything, but it takes you time to have feelings for someone... THAN CHANGE THE TOPIC...
WOMEN WANT A CHALLENGE...
SO BE A CHALLENGE...
WHEN YOU WEAR YOUR HEART ON YOUR SLEEVE...
THERE IS NO CHALLENGE FOR HER...
ALWAYS HAVE A WOMAN WONDERING...
IF SHE THINKS SHE COULD LOSE YOU AT ANY TIME...
YOU HAVE HER...
BOTTOM LINE...
DON'T LISTEN TO WOMEN WHO TELL YOU TO REVEAL FEELINGS HERE, OR ANYWHERE...
AND DON'T LISTEN TO GUYS WHO TELL YOU THIS EITHER... THEY HAVE NO CLUE...
EVER NOTICE HOW WOMEN REALLY LIKE TH EGUY THEY CANNOT HAVE??? OR THE BOYFRIEND WHO TREATS THEM LIKE GARBAGE, BUT THEY STAY WITH HIM???
THEY ARE WIRED DIFFERENTLY DUDE...
THIS IS NOT A HOLLYWOOD MOVIE WHERE LOVE WINS IN THE END, AND YOU HAVE TO SHOW YOUR UNDYING LOVE TO A WOMAN, AND TELL HER YOUR FEELINGS...
ONCE YOU DO THAT...
YOU ARE TOAST...
Took me a long time to learn this...
P.S...
I just noticed some of the womens answers here???
They are so slimy, and sneaky, they won't tell you the truth...
Just look at their lame answers...
They know the truth, but they won't tell guys the truth...
SNEAKY CREATURES WOMEN... The dumb answers I see above DO NOT ADDRESS YOUR QUESTION AT ALL...
Have you noticed how they ducked your question??
They don't want guys to know the secrets...
P.S...
when you ask a woman out, or how she feels right before you are going to ask her out,etc... YOU ALSO SHOW A WOMAN THAT YOU ARE AFRAID OF HER REJECTING YOU...
You show her you are nervous and afraid...
A REAL MAN JUST GOES FOR IT...
Only insecure men ask a woman how she feels before they ask her out, etc... AND WOMEN KNOW THIS...
2007-03-16 07:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by Q&A 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
yea, interesting i know. that's why i love life. little things like that make life so interesting wouldn't u think?
2007-03-16 07:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well guy and girls think different
2007-03-16 08:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl fink differently to boys.
girls rule lol
2007-03-16 07:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by *mommy to 3 boys* 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats how it is these days funny aint it
2007-03-16 07:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by MissDiva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her
2007-03-16 08:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by mesha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true... its diffrent
2007-03-16 08:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋