2007-03-16 07:12:59 · 13 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it just usually happens. Self control is what is required
2007-03-16 07:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens yes! But i think you both have to be sure that it is best for your relationship.
Becoming lovers with your close friend can have it´s down side in that should you break up your special friendship could be lost. Is your relationship strong enough to return to how it was should things fall apart?
Of course, there´s nothing to say, also, that becoming lovers will be disastrous. You could both end up being happy together for a lifetime.
You really have to both decide what you want and whether or not a change in your circumstances is a good thing. This in itself is frought with problems, problems i´m sure you will be aware of.
Communicate with each other and make yourself crystal clear.
2007-03-16 07:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by titus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe is the needed ingredient that comes to a call. Emotional stability is the both major ingredient. The demands on 'emotional stability' are more advantageous on the spouse than a buddy. (operating example, if we are stricken with assistance from 'AIDS' virus, quickly after marriage, no longer unavoidably by way of our negligence or wilful misdeed, a buddy unearths it more straightforward to sympathise. yet a spouse has to workout more advantageous caution, and fore-flow a physiological favor for something of the life.... the demands on a spouse is somewhat more advantageous. it really is virtually like the enormous difference between gazing a movie, and being contained in the tale of the movie!). Agreed, no longer all situations are that badly extreme, in everyday life. yet apprehensions creep in with out waiting for permissions. And emotional themes are sought to be dealt with logically, and it really is the position adjustments creep in fairly oftentimes. With a buddy, the very foundation is unconditional, and common sense does no longer creep in that quickly. .. no longer virtually a spouse.... fortunate are those little ones who locate their verify or father and mom to be "like" their associates!
2016-11-26 00:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by hague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband were best friends for 10 years before getting married. Everything is working out well so far.
2007-03-16 07:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Doreen A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went out with my best friend, big mistake for me. We ended on bad terms and no longer speak, i would rather have him as a friend then anything else
2007-03-16 07:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i hope not or im going to have alot of lovers lol :)
if you are attracted to your friend and they are attracted to you and it feels like there should be more then friendship then no doubt it will lead to more then friendship... other ways... its just what you make of it!
2007-03-16 07:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me a lot! In fact, that is how my Wife and I got hooked up.
2007-03-16 07:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes because you no eachother so well and no wat u liek and dis liek the relationships between friends are good. and if u break up it really shouldnt matter cuz u could remember the fun times u had when u were just frinds too.
2007-03-16 07:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by angel_moi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't always happen. It really just depends on the scenario.
2007-03-16 07:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sarlax 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not always, just because you are friends, you might not be compatable or fancy one another sexually.
2007-03-16 07:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by dover56dover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋