2007-03-16 07:05:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
looking for patterns in human behavior
2007-03-16 07:09:45 · update #1
Well, I was walking and I tripped and my penis fell into a womans vagina, but it was an accident ...
Just kidding, I have in past relationships and ironically when I was a Christian.
My current relationsship is over 7 years and I have never betrayed her. Ironically this is about the same time I became an Atheist.
To be truthful, I don't think religion has anything to do with the change in behavior, the main reason is I love and respect the lady i have more than any other one I have been with. She deserves every bit of it.
2007-03-16 07:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Well, almost. I tried, once, anyway. And only once.
I had a girlfriend when I was a sophomore in high school and it wasn't working out. The school year ended and we still sort of saw each other, still said the same semisweet nothings, still called each other boyfriend and girlfriend. She went off to be a camp counselor, I stayed with relatives for most of August. We were both invited to the same girl's birthday party; I came in from my grandparents' place, so the first time I saw my girlfriend in two weeks was at this party.
Birthday girl starts flirting with me, my girlfriend ignores me and is sort of embarrassed to have me around. I go outside to try to sort out what I should do, suffer a momentary lapse of ethics, and decide to see where I can get with the birthday girl.
I come back in, birthday girl is dancing with the guy who's going to give me a ride home, and they're dancing reeeaaalll slooowwww.
On the ride home, he tells me that he and birthday girl are going to start dating. I find out a week later that my girlfriend had been cheating on me for most, if not all, of the summer.
She didn't tell me because she didn't want to 'hurt me'.
Birthday Girl and Ride Guy are married now. My girlfriend and the guy she was cheating on me with, well, they broke up about a week after I found everything out. Guess their relationship couldn't stand being out in the open. I spent most of junior year trying to figure out what embarrassed me more - that I tried to cheat on my girlfriend, or that I was so bad at it.
2007-03-16 07:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Doc Occam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on about every girlfriend I've ever had but that was high school stuff. Never cheated on my wife, even before we were married.
Note: I was a christian at the time of all said transgressions
2007-03-16 07:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by hot carl sagan: ninja for hire 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never - as someone who has been cheated on, I would never put a boyfriend through that. I would bite the bullet and break up with them.
2007-03-16 07:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married. But I have been cheated on. I don't believe in cheating. If the relationship isn't working I believe in just breaking up and moving on.
2007-03-16 07:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Physically? No.
Emotionally? No.
Mentally? Regretfully, yes.
2007-03-16 07:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by hazydaze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really.
I was legally separated from my now ex husband and I started seeing someone else before the divorce was final.
2007-03-16 07:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by photogrl262000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never. In case you're wondering... I'm Wiccan bordering on Atheist.
2007-03-16 07:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my heart, yes. In real life, a physical cheating act, no.
2007-03-16 12:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I watched most of you playfully banter in here. I've joined you. In some books, that would be called cheating.
Yes.
2007-03-16 08:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by awayforabit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋