I was with this one guy and everything was good. or so i thought. finally we had sex and i haven't seen of heard from him since. what did i do wrong?
2007-03-16 06:53:18 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he got what he wanted. He hit it and quit it.
2007-03-16 06:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Shredded Cottage Cheese 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, there are times when I wish that a woman would hunt down some of these "bad news" fellas and give them a horrible dose of their own &^% medicine...I get so angry..because I think that one of my ex-'s did this to me..before he up and joined the army! even if he gave me a ring...and wanted me to marry him..and I wasn't ready to.. I still think that he was after the sex! I waited four months before I had sex with him...but, ya know...even that isn't long enough! I should have waited...(even if I was a little bit curious myself!) that was my first time!
There is an old Native American tale about a woman who's vagina had a special creature in it...guess what it was?! A piranha fish! No man could get into her, without getting bit!!!!
Interesting huh!?! LOL!
I only say this for those men, who don't "Get it" not for ALL men..okay? There are some wonderful guys out there..and they will love you...trust me! They will give you the love you deserve...but, this fella, he needs to encounter a woman with a deadly fish! ya know with a whole lotta itty bitty teeth?!!!!!
maybe he'll learn to back off!
Also, long while back, where I grew up...this man tried to rape this women..so she bit off his tongue...now think on that won't ya!?(not that I would do this...ewww! so gross!) but she did! It must have gotten the point across to him right away!!!!!
and then there is the John Wayne Bobbit episode(of which I never want to do either....but, you get the picture now..don't you?)
This guy was such a loser! You can move on from this last idiot! This time...wait...and get to know the fella, and don't give him nothin', till you are SURE that he wants you...and isn't just there for one thing!
Just wait n see! Good luck!
2007-03-17 11:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong, girl, he was just looking for that one thing, if you know what I mean. Some guys these days will do anything to get a girl to kiss him or, in your case, sleep with him. Don't blame yourself for that dumbo, he just wanted you for the sex. After the sex, he probably just ticked you off his list and moved on to the next girl.
Just for the info, be careful. There are many guys out there who just want you for the sex or a bit of action, and the junk thing is that you never really can tell who's faking it and who's for real. The guys who ARE for real and reading this, though, you need no commendation because you're just doing what you're supposed to. For the guys who are faking it, you can all go to hell.
2007-03-16 07:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by sugacaney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all....the guy is a jerk!!! He may have just been waiting to have sex with you and then once he made his "conquest" threw you away. I am so sorry. But, let's give him the benefit of the doubt here...let's just say he's running scared because he found that he has feelings for you. If this is so, you can find out by confronting him the next time you see him. Ask him straight out..."Why have you been ignoring me? You hurt me!" If he seems sincerely regretful of his actions then talk it out with him, if he is rude and mean...then tell him he is a jerk and not worth your time. What ever you do, don't result to cursing at him or screaming. Be calm and dignified and then simply walk away and ignore him.
2007-03-16 07:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you didn't do anything wrong. That man was probably out for a piece of ***. Forget about him. Some men seem to think that a good bang will clear their heads'. Well those men seem to think that we women are just pieces of meat (or ***, take your pick) and that once we've fulfilled their purpose, they kick us to the curb. How about you find yourself a nice man, or some Ben and Jerry's, they're interchangeable in this case. My suggestion, start with the Ben and Jerry's.
2007-03-16 06:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. I know it is easy for me to say but you need to let that go. He is a jerk. He got what he wanted and now he is gone. Chalk it up as experience. Not every guy is like that. You just happened to find the creep. Don't lose hope, you will be okay.
2007-03-16 06:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way but it's true. You slept with him.
That's frankly all he wanted so what we he want from you now? I don't mean that in a rude sense, but it's true.
Guys have a tendancy to be out for one thing and once the achieve this they don't see a need to invest anymore time.
Sorry sweetie I know it sucks but it's kind of live and learn situation.
2007-03-16 06:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then if that's the case, hes just after S**, you've just wasted your time with him not unless you also had fun *wink*? He just want to have plain fun and thats it, hes not into complications and serious relationships. The best thing that you can do now is move on and dont bother whith the next step that you can do, you're just wasting your time with a guy like that. Dont even have the balls to settle the circumstance he went into...
2007-03-16 07:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by "technophobe" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you did wrong was have sex with him. He sounds like one of those guys who is great to a girl until he gets her into bed and then he disappears. It's his problem not yours. He's a jerk and a user!
2007-03-16 06:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. Most men just want sex. Once they get it that's it. Not all Men so don't judge them all by this guy. I am sorry to say you were used. It's sucks and I hope you can let him go.
2007-03-16 06:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously wasn't the right guy - he only wanted a root, sorry. Fimd someone else who will love you forever - sometimes it takes a lot of frogs to find the prince I really am sorry for the heartache you now have, don't let him put you off men forever...
2007-03-16 07:00:12 · answer #11 · answered by Hosebeast-ess to be 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋