I started dating a boy Junior year of high school and we just broke up (2 years later during our first year of college). He was my first kiss, first love... etc. He broke up with me because we never saw each other (we go to different colleges and both work full time, which was stressful and made us fight all of the time). Two weeks after he broke up with I met a boy doing laundry at school at 11 and we talked until 5 in the morning. I see him all of the time because he lives in my dorm building and he treats me like a princess. We really connected but I can't help but thinking about my ex boyfriend who was my first love. He asked me to be his girlfriend again because he can't live without me but I don't know what to do. I really like the new boy and I like seeing him all the time and hanging out with his friends and being the girl in the group, but I miss my exboyfriend too and how comfortable we were together and how everything about him just felt right... What should I do?
2007-03-16 06:51:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay this sounds like my life. You need to date someone else and not the ex boyfriend. If you are supposed to be with your ex then you will figure it out. I think that you need to date someone else to figure that out though. Everything can feel right with someone else.
He was your first love and etc. so it is expected to have those feelings. Part of me will always love my first love. He means the world to me and sometimes I think I would drop right back into his arms if I could but I am with someone else who makes me 100 times happier. My first love and I were that... just first loves. We were great together in high school but now we are in different places in our lives and that sounds like you. You will figure it out as you go through college. This guy sounds like a winner at your school so just give him a chance, the worse that can happen is it doesnt work out. You dont want to always be wondering though!
2007-03-16 06:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by Questionqueen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I understand you like this new guy, but you need to deal with your previous relationship first. You have a lot of history with him, and you still have a lot of feelings for him. Don't get this new nice guy entangled in that.
Figure out what you want with your ex boyfriend. Can the distance work for you? Can you find a solution to your arguements? How will you make it work if you decide to be together again?
No one deserves to be a rebound. No one deserves to be used to figure out your feelings.
When you've handled all your issues with ex, then proceed.
2007-03-16 06:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Alice M. Ayres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all my opinion! Pleaz don't go for the ex cuz you said so yourself that y'all argue all the time and you don't get to see each other! And the 'i can't live without you' bull i spend my time around guys all the time it's usually just a line of bull! I say go for the new guy cuz you said you see him all the time, he treats you like a princess, he obviously likes you if he asked you out! I strongly think you should go for this new guy!
2007-03-16 07:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by shorti241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comapre how you feel to both boys. Try not to think about what happened b4 with your ex because then you may go out with him to get that back and it may not happen so I wouldn't depend on what was because it is in the past but yeah try comapring and see who you like more. Best of Luck forever!
2007-03-16 06:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i mean i think you should TRY out the new guy and see how it is going out with him and if you really start to like love him and stuff then stay with him, but if you start thinking about your ex like nonstop like maybe you should go back to your ex. but i would try the new guy especially because you get to see him a lot and you just like everything about him and you will be lessed stressed out because you will get to see him a lotttt more than if you went back out with your ex!
2007-03-16 06:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lina x3 Pete Wentz is the sex! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of your ex. Long distance relationship is hard. Give your new friend a chance.
2007-03-16 07:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
see, i think this is when you go with that saying-"you never forget your first" think about it... have you?your first anything that you were old enough to remember..... next year in college youll think of everything you did last year. have fun, good luck
2007-03-16 07:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by munsee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from my point of view you should listen to your heart and follow what feels right and who you would want to spend your life with . :)
2007-03-16 06:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to let go and move on.
2007-03-16 06:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋