my one so called "mate" says she hates me for no reason she said to me " ive just thought and well to be honest i hate you ive never liked you"
well im gutted! but i must get over it
i have no idea why she hates me :(
help
thankyouxx
2007-03-16 06:51:13 · 14 answers · asked by brydie t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ordinary social agression playing out. If you want to better understand it and get one up on your "mates," I'd reccommend picking up a copy of Odd Girl Out by Rachel Simmons.
2007-03-16 06:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by stmichaeldet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be so many reasons, maybe she hear something, maybe something in the past that she never let go. Only she could tell, but if she is not telling you the reason then there's only one thing to do, let it go and move on.
Sounds kind of crazy to do that to your mate and not tell him why. Talk to her and if she doesn't tell you then imagine all the things she'll be keeping from you.
2007-03-16 06:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her and find a new mate. Don't hang around or associate with someone who hates you. The energies are not good for your health.
2007-03-16 06:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont even give her a second thought, she's obviously got "issues" and need's to sort herself out.
I'm all in favour of honesty, but that's plain nasty and you'd be doing yourself a huge favour by removing yourself from her company.
She's the one with the problem not you, you've been a friend and that's how she repays you!
Find yourself another friend who wont treat you in such a childish manner!
2007-03-16 09:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a wacko. If she never liked you then why did she lie and act like a friend. I would not really care what her reason is as you can not try to make sense out of some one who has no common sense.
2007-03-16 06:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a stupid remark.Thank goodness you are rid of her.Now go and find some nice mates that share the same interest as you and be pleased you are rid of that one.Good Luck.
2007-03-16 06:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by pups 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe somthing happened to her, women have a difficult time recovering from things and they try to cover thier pain by blaming others or you did somthing to hurt her. try talking about this problem but donyt be harsh cause that will just make her madder
2007-03-16 06:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by taylor w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first how long were you together ....and you have to look at his/her home life....sometimes depending on how a person was raised...they think when they say hurtful things that is what a relationship is supposed be like.....and sometimes he/she could say that just because he/she wants you to be cruel to her/him because that is all he/she knows...so now you have to think is this really worth all the work
2007-03-16 06:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she use you. Be happy it is over now go find a true love.
2007-03-16 06:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by LDJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why?.....If hse doesnt answer just leave her alone, she may have the hotts for somebody else and just wanted to get rid of u
2007-03-16 06:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by KATRINA A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋