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Ok, this question is a bit strange...
My problem is:
I met a girl
She said she trusted in me and told me that she love one guy.
i said her that i like her.
But she said she deslike me.
And in that day we stop to talk.


The problem is that she is behind me ( in the classroom), and i try to ignore her but when i get back to talk to one friend she is always there.
So i wanna know if theres a better way to start disliking that girl
I try but its too hard... and i have the impression that she misses me( in thursday we get out of class and i tried to ignore her, but she look at me)
Am i being stupid for doing this?
We have beind ignoring each other for about 3 months, and this was the first time i said that i liked a girl, is this why is so hard to forget her?

PS- the text is a bit confusing, im not english...and no, im not a dumface at english

2007-03-16 06:49:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

she is very proud
One day when i catch a paper of her she said she didnt want nothing
I dont knew it was of her and i gave it to to the guy that was next to her in the table

2007-03-16 07:03:12 · update #1

i know that there are more girls but this one is the best
i dont see me with others girls...

2007-03-16 07:09:30 · update #2

9 answers

Your problem is not strange at all, in fact, it is almost universal. You're just too young yet to realize that, given some time, you'll get over it. If you want to speed up the process, talk to your friends about the situation, or go out and socialize in places where you might meet someone new to obsess over - maybe the next one might actually be available.

2007-03-16 06:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by stmichaeldet 5 · 0 0

Don't stress, your English is good enough, I'm sure you speak english better than I speak your language.

It's very hard to change your feelings. I think you should start speaking to this girl again. Just normal stuff, not about who likes who but things like school and what's happened in class. She's probably feeling as awkward as you are just now. Ignoring her clearly isn't the solution to your problem and she is probably upset that she may have offended you. Act as though nothing happened and see where things go from there. She may have changed her mind by now.

Good luck.

2007-03-16 06:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0 0

I don't think you have to dislike her. I think that's a very strong word. Disliking someone means not liking them; not even as a friend. So just try to meet other girls. Maybe you'll start to like someone else and then you'll start to forget about this girl. If you try to find other girls, then you'll meet more people, you might become more popular, and this girl might see that you're cool and that a lot of people like you and she'll see that she really does like you. Maybe when she said that she disliked you, she was lying because you were the guy she was talking about when she said she liked someone. She might have just said that she doesn't like you so you don't think that you're the guy she was talking about (girls do that a lot). Well i hope this advice helps you. ~good luck~

2007-03-16 07:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by ILuvMe06 2 · 0 0

try talking to her again. Just get to know each other on a friend to friend basis. Girls LOVE knowing that guys like them even if they already have a boyfriend. It makes them feel special. If you just stopped speaking to her she may think that you only liked her because you wanted something from her. Build up trust and work on common ground and btw... for not speaking English your typing is advanced. I am an English tutor/ poet/ journalism major and you are doing well so keep up the good work!

2007-03-16 06:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

the way to get over her isn't ignoreing her, because then you will just think about her more. talk to her again and tell her that you don't have feelings towards her anymore and just want to be friends, even if you do have feelings for her atleast you'll be able to hang out with her. This case you can talk to her and not have to ignore her. good luck

2007-03-16 06:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-10-01 00:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

talk to her again and ask her why everythime your talking to someone she is always around you. if she don't like you like she says she does, move on just keep ignoring her. and find someone that will give you the respect you need. hang out with friends, and if you see her coming towards you. leave and walk away fast. and when she keeps coming around just ask her if you can do anything for her. good luck.

2007-03-16 06:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0 0

Ask your teacher to move spots in class. Just say its because I am easily distracted by the people sitting by me.

2007-03-16 06:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by nick.stauffer 2 · 0 0

u will feel like this as its the first person that you liked.
but i would suggest you forget about her.
theres plenty more fish in the sea.
best of luck

2007-03-16 07:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by *mommy to 3 boys* 4 · 0 0

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