If you and a girl hit it off on a first date, and she sleeps with you that night - do you assume she's easy?
If she doesn't sleep with you, how many dates normally should go by to prevent you from thinking she's easy?
This is not for my personal use - I'm in a relationship.
Thank you!!
2007-03-16 06:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by jennifer74781 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No- I assume I'm lucky. I hate this mentality-like it's not OK for a woman to seek pleasure but it is for a man? Give me a break. This kind of thinking only makes it harder for me to get some.
NO!! Men who believe this crap should get over themselves.
2007-03-16 06:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jason D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, for me it depends on several factors. There was one time I met this girl at the place I used to work, and we went out on a date. It was an all-day date. We made a breakfast date, and we wound up walking around, eating lunch and eating dinner together. We ended up back at my place. At first, she resisted, and I backed off. After a while, she started getting "friendly" with me, and we slept together. I've had several instances where I've been on a date, and after an hour she asks if I want to go back to her place. I told them no, and I never saw them again. The woman I'm with now wanted us to wait a while before being intimate. I knew I was in love when she said that. I also knew I was in love when I didn't even try to get intimate with her. I honestly waited until she made the first move. We didn't go all the way the first time. I went at her pace. If I started to go further than she wanted to go, she stopped me, and I truly stopped. We actually didn't go all the way until 6 months after our first date.
2007-03-16 14:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting! I will go with easy, not that that is a turnoff! However, in a budding relationship, I would suggest you do the adult thing and talk about advancing the relationship in appropriate stages. After a month maybe some breast, maybe a month later a little heavier petting and snuggling, and about the tird month, would be the time to start given up the goods.
2007-03-16 13:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most of the time, when a guy sleeps with a girl the first night they tend to lose interest because they got what they wanted but there is a slight chance of them calling the girl back so that they can hook up again. I wouldn't consider it a good way to begin a relationship
2007-03-16 13:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have to say, the girl is easy. And if your trying to get into a serious relationship you should sleep together on the first nightbecause you got what you wanteed and now your interest is gone, so its better to wait and "tease" eachother to keep the realtionship going. But if the sex was great I would call her back, but thats me. Hope this helps.
2007-03-16 13:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by forumrider93 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i would not think she was "easy" --- and however many dates she wants --- its not a race to get her in bed --- its a journey to find out about each other and if we want to spend the rest of our lives together
2007-03-16 13:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she slept with you on the first date, she is easy and so are you.
2007-03-16 13:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Che K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not really easy. she just might really like you or be really horny at that time. She may also be using you, which you could only be so lucky!
2007-03-16 13:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three dates is "normal", and to answer your question, NO she is not easy she is just fast.
2007-03-16 13:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by nick.stauffer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeah UR easy 2 points!
2007-03-16 13:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋