Help... Please, not sure what to do about my sorta g/f.?

Question

I have a sort of girlfriend/just friend, though we don't really go out or anything, but we're more than just friends. We hang out a lot, and she's even had me keep on talking to her on the phone so she can hear my voice when she falls asleep. Yes, she fell asleep to me talking, at her request. I know she likes me a lot, and I like her a lot to, but she's kinda takeing it slow, which is fine with me. We act more like b/f g/f than just friends, but nothing official. And I've never actualy asked her out. Recently, though, I managed to tick her off, and she doesn't want to talk with me right now. So, I've sorta tried talking to her, but not really. Just been trying to give her a little space. I know right now, she's kinda under a lot of stress, partialy her parents, as well as school. I sent her an email trying to explain myself, and how much she means to myself, and I'm waiting for a response. How long should I wait? Should I try to talk to her more? When should I give up hope? Thanks.

Answer 1

She is taking it slow you fool you are the one taking it slow. Either she is your girlfriend or she isn't make up your mind which way one she is and then treat her like that. The problem is not her but you.