she cant give me a second chance but really do love her. what do i do to get her back? cant live without her. told her that am a changed person now but doesnt believe me. please help.
2007-03-16 06:38:34 · 19 answers · asked by hellraizorw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
men like you need to be slapped first. for her to believe that u are a changed personu need to prove it to her. maybe ur behaviour and words contradict. remember actions speak louder than words. if she really loved u she will give you a chance that is if she doesnt have anyone. if u manage to get her back see to it that friends dont "influence" u again. Good luck
2007-03-16 06:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by vfm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can you blame her? what a spineless little boy you are, you cant keep your pecker in your pants and then blame your "friends"!
You found out the hard way that the grass is not always greener on the other side and now you want her back!
Wake up and smell the coffee, you cheated, you got caught, you got dumped, live with it, like she lives with the fact that you made ugly with some other girl!
Try waiting until you have grown up and can handle a proper relationship, instead of cheating and then feeling sorry for yourself!
If she's got any sense she'll avoid you like the plague!
2007-03-16 09:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first problem you need to address is your reluctance to take responsibility for what you did. The "influence" of your friends? You cheated, not your friends, it was a choice you made. Perhaps she can't accept that you have changed because she senses that you haven't faced up to that yet.
Are you too easily influenced by them? What if they had been encourage you to, take drugs, steal something, or kill somebody? Would you have been persuaded then? Or perhaps it wasn't really your friends, it was your choice, in which case face it. Look at why you made that choice. If your relationship with your girlfriend was completely satisfactory why did you need to go to somebody else. These are all the questions your girlfriend is probably asking herself. If you can find answers maybe you can give them to her and then perhaps, only perhaps, she will give you another chance.
Good luck, hope it works out well for you both.
2007-03-16 06:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
INFLUENCE OF FRIENDS ehh???
well for one stop using this excuse! you and you alone are at fault for your actions thats how shell see it and thats how youll HAVE to see it if you reallly want her back?
what have you done to prove you are a changed man?
have you spoken openly to your friends and explained that it was pathetic of them to push you in to cheating?
have you stay clear of other girls?
have you spoken openly and TRUTHFULLY with you love, about what happened?
why it will not happen again?
to be totally honest with you, she may just be one of the MANY people that will just not except cheating so will not date someone that has cheated on her! it causes to much heart ache!
the best thingfor you to do right now is give her time alone to think!
but make sure you are behavig yourself in the mean time!
if these friends are your friends they should approach your ex and explain how they influenced you... if that is the case??????
good luck hunni, i know what it like to love someone and hurt them... but you can win them back you just need to put the effort in...
WARNING: be prepared for consequences -
paranoia
jealousy
bunny boiling
revenge
2007-03-16 06:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it's going be hard getting her thats one thing, but another thing is that you cheated on her with her friend. The two things you can do is find a new girlfriend or try to get her back and this time don't cheat on her.
2007-03-16 06:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can i ask an obvious question and ask y u cheated if u love her? girls find cheating hard to cope with, maybe you should make a big gesture to win her back and prove that you love her? good luck
2007-03-16 06:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by c_e_waters 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated on her? Is that what I am reading here? Once that trust is broken, it's pretty hard to get back. Looks like you are going to have to earn her back, if she even wants you now. Dude, you should've "just said no." I hope that this doesn't continue to your future relationships.
2007-03-16 06:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by jessiekarma 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are alot of solutions to this question. people have distinctive relationships. Now, if a woman loves a boy soooooo plenty, then she loves him alot. even in spite of the shown fact that, if a woman ought to love him, then it is no longer.
2016-10-02 05:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by bachmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, CHEATERS , cheat cause they are not happy with what they have, there is NO excuse in the world for cheating.
How can she trust you?
and how terrible to blame friends on "influence"
Pull the other leg will ya, its got bells on
2007-03-16 06:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by looby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cant really love her if you cheated on her otherwise you would have told your mates to f**k off.........if she still feels any thing for you, all you can do is keep asking for her forgiveness and hopefully wear her down into giving you another chance
2007-03-16 06:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋