There's only one thing that she told and that was she has 4 kids. I really like and I am willing to look past that. Please help.
2007-03-16 06:28:30 · 9 answers · asked by abdiz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
willing to look past that???? Kids are the most important people in a person's life. No one can love anyone as much as they CAN love their kids. Most people do love their kids. First things first, accept the kids as your children. It's not even worth it if you can't. You need to bond with them before you bond with her. If you don't they will either hate the fact she is dating some random guy who will 'never be their father' or you will not be able to accept and love them like your own in the long run. Be the 'cool guy' and let them eat some ice cream. There is only pure joy in kids. Nothing to need to 'overlook'. And believe me, your relationship will blossom. She will know.
Also, don't listen to the one above mine. Don't call her every day, chicks hate clingy guys.
2007-03-16 06:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by 'looking past that'. Her having four kids? You would need to tell me and show me more before I would give you my love and share my life with you. These are children who need a dad, not a live in boyfriend. They are part of the package, not an attachment. If you have any doubts at all that you might not want this, please move on.
2007-03-16 13:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contribute something to her family as a gift. take them all rollerskating or give her a nice card or handwritten letter with tickets to some event for her children and herself and words from your heart.
2007-03-16 13:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by luminant_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her hypothetically. don't actually tell straight out. maybe ask her out on a date.
2007-03-16 13:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hip_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on pursuing her..call her everyday, ask her out.. get her attention..slowly tell her u like her..
2007-03-16 13:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by eki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a freind to ask her if she intrested in you
my freidn did that to me but she said no
2007-03-16 13:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bake her a cake or something
2007-03-16 13:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by g_rant07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!!
2007-03-16 13:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by djsanner@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 Kids is alot to take on...............
2007-03-16 13:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋