It was from when he went to All-star Weekend in Vegas. He was telling his friend about some girls he met who were from NY. Now I know I was in the wrong to look through his phone in the first place. But should I say something to him??? OR leave it alone??? I HATE being lied to. He didn't even MENTION other girls when he came back. What would you do??
2007-03-16 06:27:50 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are invading his privacy by doing that, it could have just been innocent flirtation and maybe because he knows you are insecure he didn't tell you I say you keep it to yourself, because if you confront him he will never trust you because he knows you will try to do that again.
2007-03-16 06:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the expression...you find what you are looking for? I am pretty sure you have heard it. But, I think that you have some insecurities about the relationship that you are in. If you didn't, you wouldn't have looked through his phone. Now, that you have found something that you were looking for, you feel bad. Do yourself a favor...don't bring it up!! Save the drama for somebody else's relationship. He's home with you now, and probably can't even pick this girl out of a crowd. Forget about it, and never, ever, bring this up to him. If you do, he will feel as though you don't trust him, and there is nothing more worse than having an argument about trusting each other. It's a never ending argument!! Just let it go!!!
2007-03-16 06:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he say met or hooked up with them? I think he was just telling his friend he met some cool chicks or something. Did you ask him, "So, did you meet any girl while you were in Vegas?" If not, he didn't lie. He doesn't have to tell you every single detail about his trip. Maybe he thought you'd take it wrong way if he mentioned them. Just leave it alone.
2007-03-16 06:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to address the issue with your boyfriend, the sooner the better. It is obviously bothering you, as it would me. As you said, you probably shouldn't have looked at his phone, but you did. That is not so horrible or unusual. I think I would bring it up to him, and start by telling him you did look at the phone and I would probably admit that I was wrong in doing so, however, since you now know about him meeting the girls, you would like to know what happened. But only ask this if you are really prepared to hear the truth, whether it be good, bad or indifferent. My guy is so brutally truthful, I sometimes have to ask myself, "Do I really want to know." If this were me, it would be eating me up, so I think you need to talk about this ASAP, and in a non combative atmosphere, if at all possible. Try your hardest to not say something you may be sorry for later. I know it's hard to bite your tongue, but sometimes we need to have time to think about things before we reply. I wish you the best, I know how this feels!
2007-03-16 06:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by labsims 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a reason you are looking in the first place and always trust your gut! I don't know about you but that would eat me up until I BURST! It's better to tell him but know that won't be a source for you if you want to see what's up in the future!
Tell him-he will know you are looking through his things and will be more careful. You may miss a real chance to find something!
Don't and use it as your source for more info!
Hmmm, looks like you need to decide which works for you and if you can hold that in!
2007-03-16 06:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by AE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the message said he was cheating, then I would probally leave it along. Because...you are going to be in for it, for looking through his phone. If the message is suggesting something...like meeting up with them...or cheating..then I would definately bring it up. Be calm and open though!
2007-03-16 06:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know you did wrong by looking, but if you think its going to drive you crazy, think of a way of bringing it up in a conversation.... do not incriminate urself in saying I saw ur text.. but be creative ask about other girls.. if u have a secure relationship then he wouldnt have to lie if he does... then just let him knw straight forward what it meant? but think of the outcome!!! I guess it all depends how strong the relationship is..
2007-03-16 06:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by GIGI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He went to Vegas that once...whats the chance that he will even see this chick? But just keep one eye open....
2007-03-16 06:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone, but I would have the radar on for a while to see if he started acting weird.
2007-03-16 06:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the messege if you know he do love you. Maybe he will not going to meet that girl again.
2007-03-16 06:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by Nicefriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋