im a girl and my friend told me she was bi so i was fine with it and ifink i myt be so i didnt mind finding out what its like so we was writing notes to eachother and she asked me if i would reject her if she kissed me and i said no cause i think i like her that way to.. so we were in the toilets and she went to kiss me so i kissed her but then she wanted to like snog me but i didnt no so as sson as i kissed her i pulled away but if i would have kown i would have snogged her back and now she thinks i was just saying i wanted to kiss her but i didnt really, even though i really did and i want to kiss her but i think she'll reject me what should i do?
2007-03-16 06:19:34 · 21 answers · asked by duckyy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk to her let her know u were afraid.. or didnt know how to handle it.. try settinp up sometime to hang out and it shoudl happen naturally again =) ...or if not just go for it!!
2007-03-16 06:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by GIGI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you like her and you do want to kiss her, and you didn't mean to reject her in any way, but you're just not sure about it yet - you're still exploring the direction and depth of your sexuality and trying to figure out what's right for you at this point in your life... you might be open to more later, but right now you're just not sure. Ask her to be patient.
FYI everyone else, "snog" is British slang for deep kissing.
2007-03-16 13:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just sit her down and explain why you did what you did, if she really is a good friend then it shouldnt even be a problem, honestly i dont know how weird this sounds but i think it would be nice to have a friend that was bi, cause i mean i am and that would make things easier i would just sit here and talk to her and figure things out i think she will totally understand
2007-03-16 13:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a note saying you're sorry or ask her to the toilet again and I'll bet she'll be put on a sour face there. Take this opportunity to snog her and once you do, apologise sweetly..
= P
2007-03-16 13:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by crazy dude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you liked it then ask her if she's ready to move to the next level and see what happens... everyone has the possibility of being rejected in a relationship, you never know until you try!
2007-03-16 13:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have another bathroom conference. my best friend from another skool was bi as well and she only recently told me she liked me now theres no chance of it being a us so take a chance. meet her in the broom or write her another note telling her how u feel
(im bi curious fo' anyone who wanna kno)
2007-03-16 13:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, first, I need to know what the heck 'snog' means; wait, maybe I don't need to. Icky thought.
What you have to do is sit down with yourself and carefully analyse what you feel, and don't hesitate to seek counselling; whichever way you go isn't the point, it's about being comfortable with yourself.
2007-03-16 13:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you and why are you kissing other girls in the bathrooms? I'm sorry but I thinks an inappropriate thing to do.
2007-03-16 13:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by .:Blair:. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do what you aren't comfortable with. Take it slow. And never, ever, worry about rejection. Try talking to her about it. If you aren't comfortable talking about it(verbally), then you shouldn't be doing it.
2007-03-16 13:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Trish 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You try approaching her next time to kiss her.
2007-03-16 13:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋