I have always been cold. I have spent years killing all feeling of emotion. The only thing I used was rage to focus me and to give me purpose. With regard to relationships i never let me feel much of anything for them. Just someone hot to have sex with. But never care about them. That i hated the world and wanted to kill what i hated in the world. But i have some how fallen in love. She is all I think of. We have been dateing for six months. But i have found that i cant hide from emotion, I can turn it all to hate and rage. She has thawed my heart and I dont know how to deal with this. Things people learned to deal with as children and teenagers i never did. I find my self feeling like a child and not being able to deal with emotion. How do you do this i have never learned how to deal with sadness with out rage?
2007-03-16 06:07:47 · 10 answers · asked by burn409 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you must need some more melting
2007-03-16 06:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time and let her know about you and your rage feelings. She may be understanding and will help you learn how to deal with emotions. You have a very sharp learning curve in front of you. Be careful and start learning. Read books about, it talk to people and let your girl know !
2007-03-16 13:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by broc_lyrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your story touched me, and i feeled up with tears as i read it. I can help you, what you need to do is go to a clinic or a doctor and ask for help. Your sadness has been going on for a long time and you dont know how to control it. so its hard for you. but everytime you get angry its hurting you and your gf. think about the things that make you sad, draw them on a piece of paper and throw darts at it. Please do not kill yourself it will make things worse. just thing about happyt hings. everytime you go out think about a least 2 positive things. everytime you feel sad or get angry. just count to 10 or imagine a pitcure in your mind of you and your girlfriend happy together if you deal with your anger. hope this helps signed XxJadineXx
5star advice
2007-03-16 13:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jadi12ineabc123pizza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you may be my son. I'm not sure, i wish you all the luck in the world because i do have a son who is the same way you.are it is amazing to me, he writes that seems to help a lot . he is not big on therapy at all, have you tried? that is a start and write your feelings down for you know one else. and I'm glad you finally found out life isn't all live fast die young because your gonna die anyway. good luck
2007-03-16 13:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...so you are human!! See all that time trying to kill emotion should of been spent trying to deal with emotions that are natural to life.
2007-03-16 13:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding a new love, and by the way let urself feel the love nd dont turn it into anger and rage. that gets u nowhere.
2007-03-16 13:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess up your relationship with this woman. She is special and you know it. That is why you posted this question. Don't do anything to hurt her. You need to go see a professional about this. You know you have a problem. Help yourself. I wish you the best.
2007-03-16 13:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let your guard down. Let people in and they will help you. sounds like your getting over what ever it was that was making you bitter. Its time live.
2007-03-16 13:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use love to dissolve the anger hatred and pain, the three demons
2007-03-16 13:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by david j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave Yahoo and go see a shrink
2007-03-16 13:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by Master Richard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋