If you met someone today or tomorrow, whether you're heart was open to it or not, & they were ready to love you and you saw them in that way, would you love them? Would it matter to u, if you had a job or not? Would it matter if you lived in a dump or if you were trying to better yourself by focusing on school? When you want someone, you want someone right, & if you want to be with them you're not going to fight it because you don't feel like you're where you need to be, aren't you going to be open for that love?
Why do some guys claim that they fight love because they aren't ready for it? But how can you fight it? If it's there and it's offering itself to you, why would you turn it away? It's kind of like in Spiderman 2 when Peter Parker tried to act like he wasn't in love. Why do guys claim that they fight against love?
2007-03-16 06:04:55 · 6 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i don't know why we have to wait why can't we do like cavemen just pick someone that's your wive
2007-03-16 06:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by kingshanethe3rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys fight against love because they've been hurt before and don't want to be hurt again. some guys fight because they see love as something they don' need/want and thus push against it.
Me? I'm a guy who is looking for love and yet muck it up when I have it ebcause I can't commit. There - said it.
(does this solve anything? No - but makes the lines clearer eh?!)
2007-03-16 06:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by p_giffney 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get the feeling that there is a Peter Parker in your life :P
Seriously, this is not the biggest deal about humanity. Why do people keep complaining when they found love? I think that's a better and harder question.
Just wait until you find the one, he who won't even resist falling in love...
2007-03-16 06:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tayfun T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would turn it away because my individual fulfillment is more important to me. I never want to feel like I need a man for anything.
2007-03-16 08:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe in love
life is just an illusion
think of the feeling of wetness?
we arent really wet..it is just an illusion
its just pressure and temperature touching your skin making you FEEL wet
love is the same an illusion
its really just lust
2007-03-16 06:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by LostMyMind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a broad statement some girls do it to, it probably has to do w/ self insecurities
you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else
2007-03-16 06:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by Camshaft 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋