2007-03-16 06:00:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
always remember my words..."people always change their opinion"...if today u r a hero than tomorrow u can be a zero for them.and if today u r a zero than tomorrow u canbe a hero for them...one should never be bothered about what others think of them.the only key to avoid thinking about what others think of u is: a "strong believe in ur self".u must believe in ur abilities..u have to TRUST ur self.
the day u start believing in ur self ..u will be the happiest and successful person of this word.
believe me, it really works...cuz it surely works for me.
2007-03-16 06:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A rumor was started about me that wasn't true. It was hurtful and I tried to defend myself but it was futile.
Years later, I'd moved to a different city in a different state, four hours away. I found that the rumor had followed me via a couple of gossipy young women. It hurt again but this I had matured and was able to shake it off.
You can't control what other people think about you. All you can control are your own actions and reactions. Be the kind of person you know you are despite what they say about you. The truth will come out.
2007-03-16 13:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by alikilee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone worries about what other people think of them because as children we all worried about what our parents thought of us and wanted to make them happy. Our very lives depended on our parents love.
As an adult now, you have to realize that other people are not your parents and HAVE NO POWER over you. And, no matter what they say they think and feel about you, you cannot read their minds and so you'll never really know. Also, whatever they think of you is just THEIR opinion. As Salt-N-Pepa stated in their "None of Your Business" rap song, "Opinions are like assholes and everybody's got one."
The only opinion regarding you that you should be worried about is your own.
2007-03-16 13:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by dragonsong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop caring you mean?
Well that's just it... Stop! being the operative word.
Here's a secret for you... You control your brain function and emotions... It/They don't control you. Unless you allow it... By caring.
Think Mr. Spock and chalk it up to irrational... Then it won't matter.
"Stop ot or I'll bury you alive in a box."
Bob Newhart on Mad TV.
2007-03-16 13:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem and whenever I drink or take my meds for anxiety I realize how its just extra negative energy when I worry what others think.
2007-03-16 13:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to like yourself more, I've pretty much alway's had low self asteem-But, I'm 40 now & ya know what? alway's wondering what people think or view you as IS a pure waste of time!! Because you'll never be able to please everyone, fact!!So, who the H*** care's what they think? it's what you think of YOURSELF really!!!
2007-03-16 13:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by mgle3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think what God is thinking about you.
2007-03-16 13:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Q8aviation 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will outgrow it. I did.
2007-03-16 13:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋