cheated on my girl... she wasn't sexually or emotionally attractive.. so I found someone who was ;) Now her eyes are rolling she's crying so hard. Also has to do with the fact that MY mother does NOT approve of her. Mom knows bestest ;)
I don't know whether to laugh at her, cry with her, or do both. Is this wrong??
LOL... She's crying so hard.. she sounds like a sheep.. "BAAHHAAAA.." LOL
2007-03-16 06:00:24 · 37 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is like that because she trusted a jerk and cant get over the idea that she was stupid enough to trust you
2007-03-16 06:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong of you to be insensitive. I don't know how old you are but at some point you made her your girl, so she must have had something special or you would not have made her your girl. She wasn't sexual or emotionally attractive, these might be sound reasons for breaking up with her, which is what you should have done first. Mom must have saw that in her too, and not wanted her son to get stuck with someone like that, as a mother myself I can feel for your mom's feelings. Feel bad for your ex-girl's crying, wish her well in her future, and if you found someone new that makes you happy, move on. Next time remember how would you feel if someone cheated on you, and then later on was insensitive about it, it would not feel too good.
2007-03-16 06:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You hurt her. You should have told her long ago that you did not like her that way but you used her for as long as you could then found someone who mommie liked better as well as a turn on for sex. She needs to get her act together and move on but she is hurting because she feels this is unfair. Just leave her alone! Tell her you are a jerk and have moved on you should not cry or not laugh either because you did this. Maybe she is weak you both sound very young but you are wrong. Shallow! You have the right to move on but you dont have the right to hurt people whenever you feel like it. You have to learn now to be honest with yourself from the start!
2007-03-16 06:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by tressroy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are double speaking, if she is your girl and you feel like you cheated on her then you should be feeling bad, if she is not yours then laugh at her and let her move on she will find someone else and you might just be out there all alone??? I don't know you or her. I want to say shame on you, but you might have done what you thought was the right thing, maybe you should let her go, but maybe you should have been more honest with her in a nice way and told her that you wanted someone else? You are the one that will have to live with this and deal with it however, it turns out. How did she find out by the way?
2007-03-16 06:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. You should have let her go before you found someone else to be with.
2. She's crying because that is just how girls are...go figure. Say your sorry for not being honest with her to start out with and go on with your life. She's going to have to do the same even though her heart has been broken.
3. Ask your mom what she thinks of your new girlfriend...see if you can practise what you preach if she says that she doesn't like her either.
2007-03-16 06:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tough Love Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all, Mr. Love, If you found absolutely nothing attractive abut her, why even bother to be with her? I mean, if she was just a 'booty call', then it's all on you. It's your fault for being that type of person that you are. In my opinion, which is totally appropriate in the is situation, you are very low and you obviously have no morals. Just do HER a favor, and end the relationship.. And mama's boy, I hope you and that other girl have a great life together ; )
2007-03-16 06:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you messed up. If she wasn't sexually or emotionally attractive, why were you with her. You should have broken it off before you wanted to go somewhere else. You need to explain to her that you aren't interested in her as a girlfriend. You may be able to save the friendship, but anything else is probably gone.
2007-03-16 06:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by James G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are quite the guy aren't you? Why do you call her your girl if you cheat on her. Let her go and live her life to find a man who will cherish her. And as part of growing up, cut ties with mother. Being attached to one's mother always brings trouble in future serious relationships.
2007-03-16 06:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by VW 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Se was emotionally invested in you, but not you in her. She is hurt, but you re not, because you didn't feel the same toward her. You need to end this relationship. If you are not intersted in her, and looking to other girls, you shouldn't be in a relationship, and let the girl think you are an item.
2007-03-16 06:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is she even your girl if you have no respect for her? Mothers usually do know best!
If you think it's funny that she's crying, you need to leave her and be alone. Don't give her any VD to remember you by either!
2007-03-16 06:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU????????????????????? Move on and leave the poor girl alone...... You have a lot of nerve. You were in the wrong for cheating and you are lucky you are not my BF as you would not have the ability to cheat on me or anyone else for that matter. Trust me you would be rubbing yourself to sooth the pain and not for pleasure for a while..... GROW UP AND MOVE ON.... YOU ARE THE REASON WOMEN GIVE MEN A BAD NAME...........DOG
2007-03-16 06:06:49 · answer #11 · answered by young at heart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋