my ex and i were "together" though she was still with her bf BUT it was agreed that she was serious about me again and that they were breaking up asap.today she tells me that we have to stop cuz she can't be w/ the two of us cuz she can't cheat, that she's not a cheater and its unfair to all 3 of us, that its hurting her and making her upset.then said that she was going to break up with her guy asap. in her words, we're just putting "us" on hold and that she'll come back when she's ready. well she broke up with him last night. but...now she's kinda ignoring me today. she said she's not ok right now. that she'll now probably come back but got really annoyed when i asked about it. she said she doesn't want to talk for a couple days. is this really something i shouldnt take personal? i have no idea how she feels about me anymore. we were practically back together and now she cancels this weekend's plans since she needs space right now.
2007-03-16 05:56:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She does need her space right now to get things straight. These situations can cause alot of stress and she needs to make sure that she is doing what is right for her. I would give her the couple days to sort out her feelings. The pushier you are the more she will draw back away from you. Give her time to recoop from it all. It will best for all involved if she knows what she really wants.
2007-03-16 06:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, she is playin u. she wants her cake and ice-cream at the sametime and is nowrealizing she was wrong for getting with u. she has gotten your hopes up for nothing cause she isn't coming back. she used u for u know and now that u expect seriousness from her she is running out again. she is a cheater and always will be. ifshe did that to him with u she will do it to u with someone else. true words to live by. I know have been there and done this. she can't love both of u
2007-03-16 06:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by yolanda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... she needs to get her crap together. looks to me like youre a rebound, and remember that you could be in the other guys spot with her someday... shes playing head games with you, you dont deserve that. you sound like a pretty good guy so if i were you i would forget about her because shes treating you like a toy. chances are that she told him that shes just going on a break and she didnt break up with him for "real". just dont bother with her and go find a better girl that will treat you right and make you happy. someone who actually cares, and will show that.
2007-03-16 06:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by munsee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually do no longer think of she replaced into ultimate you on or did it on purpose some women are in basic terms extremely valuable! i'm able to work out why you have theory she likes you (and who knows of perhaps she does) yet i think of she replaced into in basic terms being extremely friendly. women love getting compliments and he or she in all probability thinks you're an exceedingly valuable guy so of direction she's no longer likely to be propose to you, yet being friendly and having emotions for somebody are sort of two various issues. it sort of sounds such as you extremely like her and as much because it hurts to work out her with yet another guy you may attempt moving on and attempt being chuffed for her! i'm a woman and that i comprehend I quite tend to be over friendly just to people extra often than no longer so I doubt she did no longer intend to lead you on or harm your emotions.
2016-10-02 05:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all never mess with a girl who has a man...If shes with him its because she has feelings for him...Secondly she seems to be confused so your best bet is to let her go and act like you dont care...Dont look for her because it will make her more confused....
2007-03-16 06:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋