Help! My 14 month old daughter cries every time I drop her off.... Babysitter, Grandma's, Family... Everytime I leave her, she cries. How do we get past this?
2007-03-16 05:51:57 · 11 answers · asked by RN_and_mommy 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
There is only one way to get past it. Time
At her age it is normal to experience this. The best way to get through is to have a routine bye
Maybe a kiss hug ear tug or something cute you guys can do each time.
Once that is done you must leave. I mean that
I worked in child care for years and majored in Early Childhood Education
Little ones will be fine after you leave. Most times ten minutes after you walk out they are having the best time of their lives.
This time is hardest on you. You know you have to leave and so thats what you need to do.
Some parents try getting somewhere about 10 minutes early for prep time of leaving.. They sit with and talk to and play with their child in the new location.. constantly reminding them ok mom or dad will be leaving soon.. then when ten comes ... they do their routine and leave.. no ok few more minutes or please dont cry... just kiss bye...
She will grow out of this quickly as long as the location you are leaving her is secure and loving.
Good luck and Enjoy them wanting to be with you
5 years from now she will be itchin to be with her friends and not mom as much
2007-03-16 06:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Christal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will just get used to it, I had to take my son to nursery when he was just 13 months and for the first fortnight/3 weeks he cried every time i left and it broke my heart but he got used to it and now he is a perfectly healthy happy 4 year old.
2007-03-16 05:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by Angie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-17 00:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know from experience that it will take a while my son was 2 before he even went to daycare and he cried for 3months every time i would leave him it hurt me and at times i wanted to cry to cause i felt so bad!!! but it just takes time when she gets use to the people around her she will stop crying and she wont even want to leave.
2007-03-16 09:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separation tension is the place your domestic dog canines gets irritating whilst u arent domicile... by the sounds of it shes have been given it... no longer very undesirable yet she definately has it... Shes in basic terms scared that as quickly as u go away u ought to no longer come back. U could get a crate or get a a pair of toddler gates yet identity crate her. i comprehend its frustrating to do even in spite of the shown fact that it is going to coach her to no longer pee on the floor or be detrimental... Thats if she is destroying issues. wish this facilitates :D btw Your domestic dog canines has the comparable call as me.
2016-10-02 05:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just drop her off give her a hug and kiss tell her you will be back later and leave. Don't make it a huge drama...the less YOU make it a drama the less SHE will make it a drama
2007-03-16 06:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard when it comes a time we need to separate from our little ones for whatever reason....I think it's just as hard for us as moms as it is for them.....but, anyone can tell you that separation is good both for us and for them....It helps them grow stronger and eventally if they are still crying they will get used to it....It takes time but they will be okay..........
Good Luck........
2007-03-16 06:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We gave my granddaughter a picture of her with her daddy to ease separation. It helped a lot and eventually she grew out of it.
2007-03-16 06:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by alikilee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try giving her something of yours, an old set of keys worked with my son. tell her she has the keys to the house so you cannot get in without her. try playing with them with her the night before
2007-03-16 05:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by marj w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave...she'll be ok. I babysit kids at my church and thats what i tell them to do. When th kid starts crying i just get him distracted and then he's ok. Lots of kids just put on a act in front of their parents....
2007-03-16 06:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋