My bf tells me he loves me all the time but its a lil too much for comfort and it just feels so fake sometimes... i mean i love him, hes the best!!!
2007-03-16 05:48:24 · 14 answers · asked by marcella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't pay attention to what he says. Pay attention to what he does.
2007-03-16 05:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Mine does the same thing, but I realized that he's just more comfortable saying it than I am. I'm afraid to overuse it, or make it mean less. I guess the thing is that he wouldn't say it if he didn't mean it. So maybe sometimes he means it more sincerely than others, I think he means it every time he says it.
2007-03-16 05:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa, That's me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. It may sound corny...but it's TRUE! Does your boyfriend ACT like he loves you? Is he considerate? Does he keep his promises? Does he introduce you to his friends and family members? Does he pay attention to the things you say and does he remember the things that make you happy? If you can answer yes to all of these questions, I'd say he truly loves you. Otherwise...TALK IS CHEAP!
2007-03-16 05:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by FormerGiGi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is described as wanting the other person to be happy. Does your BF want to make you happy or does he tend to be on the selfish side?
2007-03-16 05:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you question him, they be upfront about it.
when i tell my fiance i love her, i'm as honest as can be, and she knows that. sometimes she'll ask me "why?" i love her, not to try to catch me off guard, but because she knows that when i tell her the truth, it makes her heart melt.
ask him the same thing after he tells you that, but be sincere about it. if he cant think of a reason fast enough (he has to think and look up at the sky to find something) then hes beng fake.
but if he can look you in the eyes, and tell you genuine answers, you'll know!
2007-03-16 05:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by John Redcorn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it feels fake it more than likely is!
2007-03-16 05:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hiya,
girlfriend only you can be the one 2 no that info. firstly, you will feel it in his actions. talk to him about it tell him how you feel and why you are feeling that he's just bluffing.
i believe he does.
2007-03-16 05:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them what love means to them first off then if it matches there actions then your good to go
2007-03-16 05:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by Juleette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look in his eyes. The eyes will never learn to lie.
2007-03-16 05:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Cricket 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is instatntly told , if it is repeated it looses its degree of essense
2007-03-16 05:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by david j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋