have been with my bf for 2 months(im 20,hes 24)When I first met him i kept hearing that he really liked me.we started talking on the phone and i started to hangout with him and his friends every weekend.he asked me out a month after i met him and things were awesome,he wanted to spend LOTS of time with me,took me to meet his parents & ALL his friends etc.but now he's very distant he still calls everyday,but i RARELY see him hes always with his buddies.we live 30 min away and only i drive(which i dont mind).On tues,he really opened up to me and he told me how his ex cheated on him and how he wants to get his life together and start a career,but then he goes out drinking.Ive told him how i feel and he tells me he really cares about me and i shouldnt worry and hes 'not going anywhere'.I told him it seems like he doesnt really care about me and he said if he didnt why would he take me to his parents,which is true BUT,why do u think hes acting like this?What should i do now?
2007-03-16 05:47:28 · 5 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you've asked this question many times...
what is not appearing in the over 50 answers you have gotten so far?
2007-03-16 05:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by ann s 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here great advice that you NEED to take! You are too IMMATURE and insecure to handle being in a relationship. You've been with him 2 months!!! You shouldn't be thinking your boyfriend is going to leave you and if he does, well you've only known him for 60 days and you were fine without him. Grow up! And stop asking the same questions.
2007-03-16 13:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a lot of pain. Men do not like to open up and talk. It sounds like he loved his ex a lot and she hurt him deeply. My advice is give it time and be there for him if you really care about him. Just give him time.
2007-03-16 12:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by burn409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him more time and space. There's always a time in the relationship that you guys begin to space out, dont worry about it
2007-03-16 12:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by raven22229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...he's a wreck.
2007-03-16 12:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋