ok my brother is 18 years old and he got his g/f pregnant they are very happy but she is only 9 weeks pregnant ... i mean she is only 9 weeks pregnant and she is acting like she is 9 mounths or something she is trying to tell my brother what to do and what to buy and all kinds of stuff ... my brother is the one that has a job and had to go get his GED and she doesnt have a job and she is going to be able to walk across the stage and everything ...she is already saying that NOBODY is keeping her baby and she is goin to keep the baby at her house "ALL" the time and she trying to run over my brother as much as she can... my brother is a VERY nice guy and he dont want to say anything mean to her but i am bout to have to say something ... i am not trying to be in there business or anything but i am not about to see a girl run over my brother but anyways PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ help what should he do
2007-03-16 05:41:50 · 6 answers · asked by : ) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you don't like how she's treating him. It takes two people to make a baby, so it's not just hers. If what she means by no one is keeping her baby that he won't have babysitters, that's a bad idea.
2007-03-16 05:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should continue to work and save. Babies are precious , but they are expensive. Maybe some of her reactions are hormonal. She's young and idealistic at this point. She'll need all the support she can get when the baby comes, so hold your peace and let your sweet brother manage his own affairs. Be good to him and encourage his efforts to be a good father. Bake him some cookies. Make him a sandwich. Be a real sister and a friend.
2007-03-16 12:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i am not trying to be in there business or anything." uh are you sure about that? it kinda sounds like you are already up in his business. its not your child or your girlfriend, so dont meddle in things that you shouldnt. through all that you wrote, at no time did you say anything that your brother actually said, everything you wrote is your opinion and perspective. why dont you ask him what he wants to do and if he says go along with her then accept that at face value. it sounds like this is event about your brother but about how you feel about her.
2007-03-16 12:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he shouldn't let her walk all over him. He should, however, provide for the baby, legaly, but not necessarily spend money on her every whim. I'd just talk to your brother, and tell him how you feel.
2007-03-16 12:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being pregnant is very, very, very hard. especially on a very young person who isn't married. there are probably a million things on her mind right now and shes probably really worried about a lot of things. just try your best with her and calmly talk to her. if that doesn't work, try taking her to a therapist. :]
2007-03-16 13:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kayla S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, perfect! i was just complaining that not enough people are on welfare... well, i should be more careful about what i wish for! as for your problem, i think you are jealous that you haven't been able to concieve with your brother and this tramp did the first time... have you tried your dad? we know he's fertile! (or do we....)
2007-03-16 12:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by john j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋