Please explain...
2007-03-16 05:38:47 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys easily get to feel the love at sight , but it could be not reciprocated by the opposite sex , it will be a lust once it gets in to kissing and hugging and so on ,but for lust teh feeling is love , it is love
2007-03-16 05:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by david j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because that is the truth.
Listen, this is the problem of all humanity, not only men. When you think about your feelings to someone, you'll see that we don't love someone to make him/her feel good. We love someone to make ourselves feel good.
We are egoists. We fall in love with someone, just because we want to be happy. See?
One exception is the love for the family members; we love them, expecting nothing in return.
The other exception is true love. And that is hard to find, but not impossible.
So if I like a girl, and then if I deny it and think it has to do with lust, that means I'm doing that girl a favor.
Wow... I didn't know I could write this long.
2007-03-16 12:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tayfun T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, speaking as a man, maybe they aren't really sure what they feel is love. I mean, many is the time I had my other brain do my thinking for me, and it got me in a lot of trouble. So maybe they aren't ready to be in love if they feel their other "brain" take control of the situation.
2007-03-16 12:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its possible simply because we are afraid that it is only lust and we do want something more than lust (strange as it may seem)
2007-03-16 12:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy's for ya!
2007-03-16 12:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by parkituse j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋