When your so heartbroken that you can't eat, sleep, barely smile...you don't want to go out with your friends on weekends anymore and you don't want to go to work when you used to like it? When you cry every day? When just the thought of him being with someone else besides you makes you want to just end it all....was I in love? Is that why it hurts so bad to have it gone? How do I get over it? I hate it.
2007-03-16 05:29:54 · 13 answers · asked by xfallendaysx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i finally fell asleep at 2 a.m. the other night then woke up at 4 a.m. crying because i knew i didn't have him anymore. finally fell back to sleep at 5 a.m. and then had to get up at 6.
2007-03-16 05:39:31 · update #1
Sweetheart, you are looking for love and acceptance outside of yourself. It's out there too but you won't RECOGNIZE it if you cannot identify it within you first.
In life the way it goes is everything is first experienced within, then with-out. You should never give your power away to anyone so that when they are not there you don't feel that life isn't worth living anymore. This means you are depending on external sources to validate your existence. Aren't you somebody apart too? Says who that this person is everything and that you are nothing?
Maybe you should expore that. Who are you? What do you love? What do you like to do? Where do you want to be in 5 years? Do you have a College Degree? A career that makes you happy? Set goals. Take steps to get there. In doing life and becoming more of who you are will pull you out of depression. Work on becoming the fullest expression of yourself.
You are valuable. Now work on believing that.
2007-03-16 05:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling - me about three months ago. I am loads better now. We never got back together. I have realised that I dont need him. Just give it a few weeks - or even better, realise that life's too short to waste it on him. Was it love? I'm really not sure. And half of me still wants him. All those tears that I cried - you must be doing exactly the same. All I can say is everything is gona be ok. All the best x
2007-03-16 12:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't love; it sounds more like obsession. You seem to be romanticizing the whole thing, and this is too much drama, honey. We've all been there, the broken heart, the loss of appetite, the whole bit!! It hurts for a while, but you learn and you live and you get better each day. Time passes, however slowly, and you wake up one fine morning, and suddenly, you're starving, hungry for a big breakfast and hungry for life!! Life has mountain top experiences and valleys. You're in a valley now, but just keep walking. This, too, shall pass.
2007-03-16 12:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same thing but if he loved u he would be with u so there is no point get on with life u only get 1 chance make it good dont cry over him none of them are worth it find someone worthy of u not the other way round love shouldnt hurt
2007-03-16 12:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by chic_who_take_noshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It WAS love. You will need lots of time to get over that feeling. It is like mourning a person because they are gone. It will take as much time as it will take. I wish you luck. PS...Love doesnt hurt only when its no longer there.
2007-03-16 12:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people get this way ,simply because, they don't like to loose . it makes on feel inadequit at other things. get back into showing that you are not a failure by getting back to being the best you can be at your job.get a hobby .lear a new language , learn to play the piano. this way next time you will be more interesting.
2007-03-16 12:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Dori S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was love you wouldnt be asking us because you would nknow in your heart but it sound like you were love to me at least that is not up to me it is up to you were you in love with him did you wake up ever morning wishing he was there with you do you offten daydream about him do you wish you could spend the rest of your life with him? would you sacrafice your life for his if answered yes to all those questions then yes you were and still are in love with this guy you need to go get him back if you rally love him tell him how you feel and if he loves you back then you made the right choice
2007-03-16 12:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in love is different for everyone, and they say it takes half the length of the time you were together to get over someone. take a deep breath, let yourself heal & mourn if you have to, and you'll be alright.
2007-03-16 12:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not love, that's depression. Go see a psychiatrist.
2007-03-16 12:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by Viking Chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk if its depression, it depends on how long ago u guys broke up. if it was recently then u r just heartbroken and it will go away in time. if it happened a while ago, then yea u need 2 see sum1 about that.
2007-03-16 12:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋