My boyfriend just broke up with me after over a year of a wonderful relationship. We get along great and never fight. We love spending time with each other and have spent almost every weekend together for the last year or so. He says that he absolutely loves being with me, he just isn't sure that he is in love with me. He is my best friend and I am so scared to lose him. How do I win him back and show him that he does love me and we are meant to be together?
2007-03-16 05:28:39 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Side note: This happened on Monday and we have continuted to talk on the internet for the last three nights.
2007-03-16 05:32:57 · update #1
You can't win a person over or change their mind about being with you. The best thing to do is to allow him to find out what he really wants. Continue to be his friend no matter what.
2007-03-16 05:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 01:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i know how u feel, but in something like this the best thing to do is be grateful that u guys are still good friends because I have seen good friendships go to hell because they tried going out.
There is a difference BTW having fun just kicking it, and really feeling the chemistry when your together. And just CUZ u have serious feelings for him might not mean he sees u in that form. remember people don't Have to like someone push hard enough and u might be the one who ruins the friendship u guys decided to keep after breaking up.
2007-03-16 05:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by catkiss17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET THE GUY BREATHE...................... If you truly love him then give him the space he has asked for...... I promise if it is meant to be it will be.............. He broke up with you... You have already lost him....... Let him find his way back..... Begging a man to be with you is just another break up if you force him to return or pressure him into returning to you....... If he truly loves and wants to be with you he will come back to you. The question is once he returns will you want him back? I gave the man I loved space as he requested, NOW 3 years later he still wants me and I moved on and found the true man of my dreams......
2007-03-16 05:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you need to give him some space. When you give space he will end up missing you and then realize he really does love you. You shouldn't have to win his love, he should realize it himself.
2007-03-16 05:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋