ok heres my problem theres this guy who likes me alot and has the hots for me and i liked him before but not like the way he did.The bigger issue is that im still in love with my ex bf and i told him that because he wanted to know and now it seems like he's in denial like i told him to give me some time and that hasn't worked iv'e tried to be nice to him and it's like talking to a brick wall i dont know how to him tell that my mind has changed and the other thing is that he still wants to be friends with benefits and i just keep giving in to make him happy and im not happy like i wanna give me and my ex another chance because i know he still loves me it shows that he does so what should i do, i dont wanna hurt him we have had like 5 arguements already about this he wont let up and its bothering me alot
2007-03-16 05:26:26 · 6 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
been there.
2007-03-16 05:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by G?ld?n ang?l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order! And stop having "benefits" with him or you'll never get rid of him. Geez, girl, get some self-respect for yourself! This whole thing about being "friends with benefits" is a crock of crap and you need stop doing that! You're either friends with someone or you're having a sexual relationship with them - never the twain shall meet! By telling him you're in love with your ex-bf and then having sex with him is sending him mixed messages. Stop having sex with him and point blank tell him you're not interested in him. If he still won't stay away from you then you really do need to file a restraining order against him - you can't do that if you're still having contact with him, btw.
2007-03-16 05:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by saylavie2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all an ex is an ex for more than one reason. In order for this one guy to leave you alone, YOU have to leave him alone. Don't take his calls, emails, text or chats..... Something you are doing is keeping him interested. You can't have the bestof both worlds so discontinue the conversation and watch him disappear.....
2007-03-16 05:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't listen, thats considered harassment..... And it's not right for him to keep disturbing you... If he really keeps it up try to find a way to Really avoid him.
watch out, he might turn stalker on you.....
2007-03-16 05:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by larua_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no choice you will hurts someone if you going to leave him, might as well make up yr mind and break his heart badly
2007-03-16 05:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that yuo are in love with your ex, and wants to be with him.... Tell him that you want to be happy not miserable
2007-03-16 05:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋