what happens when a girl likes you?

Question

hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i asked her what her name is, it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!

i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please

i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.

ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please

i kno i sound desperate but i need help

anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels

please help

i am only wanting her as a friend for a couple of years. then ill ask her then when we're really good friends. ok thank you!!!!!

well ok i coudn't fit everything in the question. she is beautiful. she has two friends that at a retreat had a party. they invited me to it so i got to talk to them. so now i can just talk to them. should i make friends with them or not? then what should i say to them that would get sarah to talk to me? plz i need help. thanks.

Answer 1

Awwww that was like the sweeeeeeetest thing i've ever heard.

but i've been there. jus not askin the girl out.... anyways i dated a guy at my church and when we first met he flirted with me a little to get me wondering about him.

so if there is anyother girls at ur church that u could talk to about her, just ask them if she is single. if she knows u or is interested in u. dont act like ur totally in love with her or they will jus run and tell her an freak her out. jus be sweet about it.

then when u find all that out just go up to her anf compliment her. beautiful eyes. awesome hair. anything to make her smile. jus make sure she is away from her friends. then when u jus start a convo with her.

then if u get that far ask her if u could call her sometime. be sincere about it. look in her eyes dont stare away. but thats the best i got. just talk to her build up a friend ship and build on that.

Answer 2

Step 1: Forget trying to follow step-by-step instructions. You are not trying to build a set of shelves here, you are trying to build a relationship. There is a reason the stereotyipcal engineer is never any good with women. Relationships call for compassion and empathy, not cold logic and functions.

If you just want to be friends with this girls for a while, thendo what friends do. For starters you might want to just ask her if she's like to go and do something you would usually have fun doing with your other friends. Maybe even bring some of your other friends long, or some of her other friends.

Play ball, play video games, go swimming, whatever it is you kids do these days. From there, just go with the flow and have fun. Treat her like she's your best friend that you've known for 10 years. But don't put her up on a pedestal and treat her like a goddess you should worship and slave under though. Be nice to her, a good gentleman, but pretty much as long as you both are haing fun together, the relationship will come together on its own.

Answer 3

I have been there a long time ago
good to meet her at church
It's ok to be honest
She'll understand and respect you more for it
next time you two are talking, about anything
say you know something Sarah I really like you
I get so happy when I see you and I love it when you smile at me I know we can't exactly be boyfriend and girlfriend but I thought it was only fair for me to tell you.

Answer 4

my son fell for a girl who's parents were jahovah's witnesess. he is not. of course the girl was not allowed to date him. both were 16 going on 17. he used to call her only for 5 minute conversations just to say hello. then they would meet on her front porch and as time went on they learned how to talk with each other.

they just spoke of thir goals, fears, what happened in their day to day routines. stuff like that.

he used to say they sometime never said anything, just the two of them being together was so comforting to each other.

learn all about her and share your life with her as well.
don't be afraid of her, enjoy her.

the longer the relationship has before your great "of age" connection, the stronger it will be.

the fact that you will become friends, best friends, then whatever comes next can only be a plus for you both.

good luck, and I wish you both the best.

you know you may just want to make up a prayer between the both of you to say to each other just before you end your nightly talks.


ps, I might add my son and his girl have been married for 4 years with two wonderful boys.

Answer 5

Listen you have to get to know Sarah first. You have to talk to her like a regular human. Especially if you want you guys to be really good friends at first you just have to act normal and be yourslef! Don't try to show off, or act tough, or change your attitude in front of your friends either! Be you and that's all you can do!

Answer 6

Depending on the climate changes in your geographical region, a lot can happen. Did you know California has the only Mediteranean climate outside the actual Mediteranean Sea region. Fascinating isn't it. You can reward me with 10 points now!

Answer 7

Listen son...your hormones are beginning to start up on you. It's the time you discover girls and girls discover boys.

There are other ways to date a girl wihtout the need to go to the movies, use your head.

You mention both of you go to the same church, how about you start checking out your church activities and ask her if she is interested in one. If she is, theres your chance.

Answer 8

ummmmm...... i didnt think guys realy need this much help shes a person 2. im 14 and guys shouldnt have to get adives on how 2 speak. talk 2 her like shes ur friend. mabe ask her if she whants 2 go 4 a walk.

Answer 9

find out what her interest are. ask to your home . become friends, not boy friend and girl friend. even adult relatinonships would be better to start this way. this way it will be good experiance and you will learn more about the fairer sex. and that will help you to become a don wan when you are older. i dont know how to spell don wan.

Answer 10

yea, just become her friend cause if you only see her wensdays, it wont work out. im dating a girl from my church as well, message me if you want a one on one conversation about this.