Girls, please answer?

Question

Do girls have such a hard time dealing with their boyfriends making new friends that are girls?

Answer 1

because you've probably cheated on her before

Answer 2

I know a lot of women who have a problem with any of their man's -new- female friends. They're usually fine with old female friends. I think it depends how cute she is and where and how you happened to meet. For instance, if you met at work or in class, she'll probably care less. If you met at a party, at the store, or through a friend, she'll probably care more. Most importantly, is your girlfriend already insecure? Have you been going through tough times? As long as you show her that she's more valuable to you, there should be no problem. If she's still jealous, tell her that her mistrust in you is insulting... after all that you've done to show her how special she is to you!
Don't be blind. This new girl may very well be into you. Do you feel the same? Make sure you're being honest with yourself, and know that it's not very nice to bring big flirts around your girlfriend. Have you got something to proove?
Suspicious people often have secrets of their own. *wink*

Answer 3

I have problems making girl friends cause my guy likes to get involved in "everything I do".

so when a girl calls me to talk and he picks up the phone, he will talk to her for such a long time before he even lets me know the call was for me.

I have had a couple of girls ask me to pick up the phone when it rings because they don't want to talk to him.

they explain they are unsure of his intentions and it makes them uncomfortable.

I had to tell him to back off or I would do the same to his friends.

so far it has been working

Answer 4

Sometimes. When you mean by having a hard time w/ their bf’s. Every girl goes through it. Either there’s another girl after him or a guy after the girl. Those are just obstacles couples have to confront if they want to continue with their relationship. About the making new friends that are girls, it’s also a little tough. You never know that the girl might want to split the girl’s relationship becuz she likes the guy. You can’t trust anyone that you barely met.

Answer 5

Some girls do but I'm not like that. If the girl is having a hard time with it then she must really care about you and not want to lose you. Don't be harsh on her just give her time to get used to the fact that you're going to have friends and it's normal. She's just being protective.

Answer 6

yeah! we have the same problems that guys do. just because we have the x chromosome doesnt mean we cant make friends get bofiends and such forth

Answer 7

Depending on the girl and their past experiences. For example, if they have had a guy that has cheated on them with a girl that was supposedly still a friend, then they may have a harder time dealing with you having girl friends.

Answer 8

It's not that girls have a hard time. I'm in a relationship and my bf feels he can't tell me, like he has to hide it from me. And when you hide something and it is just a harmless relationship, then the girlfriend is going to grow to have a problem with it. So certain girls have problems with their bf having girls for friends, including girls who have untrustworthy bf.

Answer 9

I would have to say YES, if they are not comfortable with the relationship. Women tend to be less accepting to a man with female friends when they feel it to be a threat.
Threat because they are insecure with themselves and or the relationship itself.
Hope this helps you out !
To solve the problem is telling the girl your dating how you feel and where she stands in the relationship. Not knowing where a person stands in a relationship is when jealousy kicks in.

Answer 10

The only time I have a problem with it is if the guy never includes me when they hang out b/c that would seem suspicious. Or if I know the girl already and know she's a skank or something. Other than that, I'm fine with it.

Answer 11

Yes to an extent. Girls can not trust other girls, plain and simple. A girl can completely trust her bf but we don't know those girls that y'all are hanging out with. Girls are vicious and most of the time if they want you they will try their best to get you.