my ex and i broke up about 3.5 years ago, and we dated for 4 years. we both were eachothers first, and loved eachother very much. we broke up because we were too young and going to college. we both now have graduated college and have well paying jobs. my friend sees her often and she always tells him how much she misses me and will always love me. tonight i am going to a party were she will be. should i ask her out to dinner? or play it slow and see what happens?
2007-03-16 05:18:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See how tonight goes.. if you are feeling it.. go for it!
2007-03-16 05:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go right ahead, ask her that you guys should hang out to catch up on things and then if everything goes good then that same day ask her out for dinner. And you may want to talk to her about seeing if you guys can finish what you started, because if you guys dated that long and pulled it off great and only break up for the college reason then she may still like you, I doubt that she doesn't. Good Luck.
2007-03-16 05:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by tai&amc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES GO FOR IT!! My x and I had also dated for about 3 years in high school and a year of college... we took a break for a bout a year and even dated other ppl- he called me outta the blue and we went to dinner and to the drive in!! He proposed a few days ago so now I am planning a wedding!! Ask her:)
2007-03-16 05:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by Karah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. See how things go at the party, you may find you don't have much in common anymore....that really does happen a lot. If that's the case & you've already invited her for dinner, it might be a pretty miserable time.
2007-03-16 05:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not see how interacting at this party goes, first? it could be that seeing each other again makes sparks fly, or maybe you'll just not have the same reaction. lots can change in more than 3 years, and not all those changes will necessarily bring you closer together.
2007-03-16 05:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Megs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for a date, first like a cup of coffee or some thing
& see the response.Always strike the iron when it is hot so
that you are not disappointed later.
2007-03-16 05:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by ranjit g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on why you have broken up. you are able to consistently attempt! I consistently say to myself that i might fairly stay with regrets than what if's. confident, choose for it. If she says no, in basic terms permit it is and circulate on.
2016-10-02 05:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her out to dinner. If you still love herI would try to get back with her. Neverlet your first love go.... Good luck!!!
2007-03-16 05:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see what happens. You may find that you aren't compatible anymore.
2007-03-16 05:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by saylavie2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should see how it goes, and what kind of vibe she's kickin' and decide from there. Good luck!
2007-03-16 05:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋