i am a very outgoing person who can make friends with anyone and i am the life of every party i go to, but i can not talk to girls, i can but i cant be smooth. so what do i need to do to be better at getting dates and numbers and such
2007-03-16 05:09:28 · 15 answers · asked by Jesse N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha u remind me of me :D listen to me buddy.. remember how u used to play truth and dare with your friends? u gotta be daring .. force yourself to talk to girls, hold her hand etc.. ask for numbers.. and if u get rejected.. big deal.. i mean think abt it do u remember your friend getting reject or have u forgotten it? no one really cares if u were rejected after some time. the point is you gotta force yourself to be comfortable around girls.
2007-03-16 05:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women in general like to see the softer side of men. The flowers, cany, card for no reason. Showing affection and being affectionate is important. The girlie girl movies as a suggested date is the start of showing your more sensitive side.
Being the life of the party is good, sit back one time and watch how other men and women act at a party. The more laid back not the life of the party attitude might be the one with all the numbers. Give it a short what do you have to loose?
Best of luck to you and remember the right one will cross your path when you least expect it.
2007-03-16 05:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by young at heart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till ultimately your sixteen and your friends will in all probability lax out somewhat approximately it by employing then, you dont fairly wanna be dating at 13 in any case, only have friends and shop the dating till ultimately your older, dating fairly does get great complicated and it may pass pear formed fairly person-friendly exceedingly in the experience that your dating different boys on your same college. If issues dont paintings out then it fairly is fairly embarrassing exceedingly in the event that they have been all super as pie before everything and then become wanks and unfold rumours and so on, which could be devastating. additionally the only right thank you to get your mum and dad to return around later could be to coach them which you're making stable selections and are accountable and have a stable mature outlook on issues like boys and faculty and so on, then they wont experience they'd desire to %. up the slack for you and guard you plenty. And this isnt some thing you're able to do in 5 minutes yet over here few years. yet yeah, pass away the dating till ultimately then and locate some woman friends to attraction to close with rather.
2016-10-01 00:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by elzey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Observe how other guys do it. Check out how it's done on TV or in the movies. But above all, have confidence in yourself.
There is NOTHING so attractive as someone who gives off an aura of, "I know who I am and if you like me that's cool and if not, that's cool too."
2007-03-16 05:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you are the life of the party, i think the girls think you are like a monkey and talk too much. Next time shut up and smile to everybody and see what will happen.
2007-03-16 05:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by ubon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently you are not being yourself if you are asking for ways to act.
I am not sure what kind of person you are but I have found that when you are just yourself, someone is attracted to it.
keep an eye out on who is eyeing you and how often, what girl just happens to be the same places you are more often than not.
many girls still like to be wooed and it is hard for them to let the guy know they are hoping to connect.
smooth? yea its cool, but humor and just any type of connection will get the ball rolling, your "coolness" will come when you have your confidence.
2007-03-16 05:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to get in the girl's pants. Be very nice to her and tell the truth we women like that and make sure u r listen 2 her!!
2007-03-16 05:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax! Humor works well. Woman can sense confidence and it's attractive. But dont be overbearing because arrogance is a huge turnoff!
2007-03-16 05:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't try to be "smooth." Girls can see a fake coming a mile away.
2007-03-16 05:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend you buy better cologne. Probably something by Lacoste. After all, you don't want to smell like a sanitation worker. Just saying'.
2007-03-16 05:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by Teabone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋