i lived in cornwall and i fanced a man but i have got his phone number but he has a girlfriend and i have moved now to blackpool but i wish i could see him again but i dont know what to do should i ask him out or leave him and his girlfriend alone please help me.
2007-03-16 05:06:10 · 14 answers · asked by X UNKNOWN X 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave them alone it's horrible when people interfer with relationships it causes too much drama.
2007-03-16 05:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by xfallendaysx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking him out straight off the back I think is a bad idea. If you choose to call him I don't think would be a problem, just keep it on a friendly basis. Be sure to ask him is it okay that you call him b/c some women do not like that, and causing problems in a mans present relationship, makes it less likely that the 2 of you ever have one. Talk to him, get to know him on a friend's basis first and if things are progressing well, he'll eventually leave her, that's if his feelings are mutual. The thing is you can't rush a real relationship, it may take months before he even confesses his feelings to you. Good Luck
2007-03-16 12:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by bre714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, Just leave it well alone. Sorry probably not what you want to hear! Look at the facts all the chips are stacked against you. Distance / G/F etc etc. All that will happen is you will cause a lot of unnecassary grief and pain not only to yourself but to the innocent girlfreind. Find some one who is free and that you can practically have a relationship with, and some one that can and will treat you with respect.
Good luck, sorry my answer was all negative.
2007-03-16 12:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pursue this any further, this man is attached and is off limits!!!
find yoursel f man who does not have a girlfriend, put yourself in her shoes..... she is in love with someone and some girl comes along and starts trying to take him away, how would you feel??
i would be devastated if my boyfriend cheated on me or left me for someone else. On the other side of that as well i would never ever go near an attached man, i did when i was a bit younger, and it all ended in tears, i was heartbroken, i would never be so silly again.
You need to find yourself a man who is single and likes you stay clear of attached men!!!!
2007-03-16 12:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you let him know, back in Cornwall, that you fancied him? If not, it's too late now. Leave him alone and try to move on. There are more fish in this pond. Good luck! :)
2007-03-16 12:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his girlfriends shoes. How would you feel if someone was hitting on your boyfriend? If anything is to happen with you to then it will dont go looking for trouble. Why have you got this man's number? Is it because he gave it to you if so you should be very carful, whos to say he wont cheat on you to if hes dont it already.
2007-03-16 12:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone, why destroy the relationship he has with his girlfriend.
Build a new life for yourself in Blackpool.
2007-03-16 12:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not ruin what they have so you can get what you want. Imagine what that would do to him and how you would feel about having pulled such a stunt. If you really want to talk to him, ring and ask if he's still with his girl. If he is, open the door to someone else you'll fancy tomorrow. Best wishes.
2007-03-16 12:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by element_op 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and his girlfriend alone. We all want a good man and we are all hurt when our man cheats....why try and get a good man to cheat. (I know its his choice but why add temptation, how would you feel if it were your boyfriend and another woman was in your place)
Find another man.
2007-03-16 12:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him and his girlfriend alone. You might find a better guy than him.
2007-03-16 14:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋