I am 13, and I am in love with this boy, and we want to marry.?

Question

But our families can't stand each other, so we decided to run away and marry.
Should we?
Juliet Capulet

Answer 1

Haha. Tell your boyfriend to steer clear of would-be helpful monks.

And if you ever see your boyfriend "apparently" dead, give him a minute before doing anything rash.

Answer 2

Your 13yrs old. You have a lot of life ahead of you. Think about these questions; Do the both of you have an education? Do you have a job? How much money do you have saved up? You want to be treated like an adult but your not one. Stay in school learn all that you can and then some more. Grow. Running away shows that your mind is at where it should be a child's mind. I'm not insulting you at all. Being a child is hard nowadays but it doesn't last very long. Right now your responsibilities is to go to school and to be a kid. No I don't think you should run away. Your a minor. Do you know how many kids run away from home and end up being used, and/or dead? You deserve to be a kid. In a safe and secure environment. You deserve an education. To be healthy so that when you are old enough and the time comes for you to marry you will have the intelligence to choose a partner that is suitable for you. And when you have children you will be able to sit down with them and talk to them about life and how to make good choices. You need to sit with your mom and talk there is more to this and she is the one to help you. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Hi Juliet, I'm 65 and I can tell you that you have a whole lot of things to do before you marry. Being an adult is not a lot of fun and you deserve to be worry free for at least 10 more years. With marriage comes responsibility. Cooking, cleaning, paying bills, having children and raising them in a happy healthy environment so they wont want to marry when they're 13. After children you have to watch your weight so your husband wont look at someone else.
You're 13 years old, you'll fall in love many many times before you reach 18. Stay in school be a cheerleader or what ever is the best you can be. Go to the senior prom, all the football, basketball, baseball games and enjoy your youth so that when you are old enough to marry and have children you'll have a few of your own stories to tell. Experience some of the things teens do without worry.
Go to Church enter a youth group and learn about the peace and joy that only God can give you...And have a good life...

Answer 4

well, lets think about this, you have to be at least 16 to get a job, and in some states you can be 16 and get married but I don't know about any at the age 13.

You aren't old enough to buy or rent a house or appartment so I guess you better stay in school and enjoy the rest of teenage years.

the average person lives to be 77 so if you marry this man you are supose to be married until death do you part. So you would have approximately 64 years to put up with his bad habbits.

Answer 5

omg u r just 13 years old
and more worst u wan to run away
do u think the boy really like u
do u think when he has no money how can he take care of u
do u think b4 who take cares of u for 13
do u think that ur parent will happy if u run out with him
do u think that it will be happy if u run away with him
do u think u can get a nice n bright future
do u think13 years old girl responsible is to marry n run out with a guy
do u know y u both parents n family can't stand each other
do u wan to distroy ur future
maybe there r more nice n perfect guy in tis world
THINK BEFORE U RUN AWAY!

Answer 6

Girl you are so young, you don't need to be worried about getting married. You have to think of ways to pay bills, let alone get a place, being 13 ain't going to be easy at all. But anyway, don't close yourself from opportunties in life. If you and your bf seriously love each other you guys should wait til you can financial support each other. Like when your 21 and up.

Answer 7

no you will both regret it. You are 13 not 31. Stay in school, get an education, get a job and then marry. You are not old enough to work as of yet, drive, or drink even. You are both too young to be married and to take on that long life commitment. Stay your age don't act older than what you actually are.

Answer 8

hi....

at 13 years old, you might consider focusing on your education, growing up and discovering the world, instead of tying yourself down.

are you ready to go out and work? pay rent (it's expensive)? most of the money you're able to make would slip right through your hands, for living expenses.

you have 7 teenaged years ahead of you. lots to experience, and enjoy.

you can still have your boyfriend -- your families don't have to like each other -- it's more important that you and your boyfriend LIKE each other.

while you are attached to this boy right now, you might "grow" and feel differently in time.

i hope you will continue to be a 13 year old for a while... it may seem like forever, but you will be a grown-up before you know it!

take care, and do what you feel is "smart".

hugs

Answer 9

If you're in the U.S., I don't believe you can get married in any state at 13 years old without parental permission. Honestly, I don't know even with parental permission you can marry at 13 in the U.S. See link below. Thirteen is way too young to be getting married. It's too young to even date as far as I'm concerned. You have so much of your life ahead of you, trust me, don't tie yourself down to one boy when you're so young. Live your life, hang out with your friends, date boys (but don't get serious), go to college and graduate, be on your own for awhile, then when you've actually lived life for awhile, find the right person and get married. Don't throw your life away at 13 or 16 or even 20. It may seem like it's so far away, but wait until you're at least 25 or older to get married - you have plenty of time to date and fall in love and get married.

Answer 10

ok First dont run away. At 13 you dont understand life. I dont mean to insult you but, i am guessing this is your first crush. You must remember that this is most likely (99.9999999%) a crush not love. You do not know it but there is more to it than an emotion. So be careful and do not run off with him or have sex with him. IF you have stop now because this relationship will most likely not work and it will hurt very badly if you give to much of your self to him.

Answer 11

I know you probably feel like this is it and that he will be the only one in the world for you, and I don't mean to sound like a mom here but you are young, right now it's all perfect but don't rush anything usually relationships are great when they first start give it some time he'll still be around and if you believe in your relationship that much then it shouldn't be a problem to wait.