i am 17 years old and really hansome. i am funny, shy, good looking, tall, thin, strong. girls dont seem to be interested in me. what can i do to make girls notice me? i am shy so i cant walk up to a girl and say hi will u go out with me. any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
2007-03-16 05:01:18 · 12 answers · asked by Nathanael S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no im not ugly
i like to be around ppl and get to know them but im not doin too good with the ladies
2007-03-16 05:20:22 · update #1
i love you!!!
2007-03-17 08:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Murder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like confidence. You may be giving off signals like you're not interested because you're so shy. FORCE yourself to be more outgoing, try going to a nearby city, find out where all the high school kids hang out there & start talking to some girls you meet. You should even ask them what they think you can do to be less shy around girls. Chicks love to help in situations like that. PLUS, if they don't help you, it's not like you'll see them every day at school and feel all awkward.
2007-03-16 05:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very likeable guy so I don't understand why girls wouldn't like you. Maybe you just have to put yourself out there more. I'm 18, and there are a lot of good-looking guys at my school but they're just so shy and act so scared that I'm afraid to talk to them. Don't walk up to a girl and just be like "Will you go out with me?" cause that's way too random. But you should instead go up to a girl and just start a normal conversation and find out if you guys have any common interests. If things work out get her number. Good luck to you. =]
2007-03-16 05:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by xfallendaysx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Joking around is the perfect thank you to do away with shyness once you like somebody. i at present discovered this some years in the past, i replaced into additionally quite shy, so shy that as quickly as people walked previous and mentioned hi, all i might do replaced into smile.... SO. I say, in case you notice her returned, stroll up and say, hi, weren't you the lady I seen on the bus that replaced into checkin me out?! Or some thing like that. That way, you immedately known her, (factor) She knows of you have been checkin her out too in case you spotted her checking you out (factor) and additionally you will make her giggle.(factor) She'll the two take it or go away it chum, the two way, its a win/win for you, despite if she does not look intrested, you discovered the thank you to hit on different chicks with out being so shy. :)
2016-10-02 05:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by megna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to get rid of the shyness you can't get a girl if you can't ask. It doesn't really happen like it does on TV they don't flock to you cuz your hot. You gotta pick one and go for it. If not get used to being alone until you finally come across the one girl who might ask you out. You can't live your life sitting there waiting quietly. It will pass you by before you realize it.
Get out there and initiate some conversation at least find out if they are even willing to talk Do something.
You can do it!!!!!!!
Good Luck!! :)
2007-03-16 05:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to start breaking out of the shyness. No matter how great you feel you are, a bunch of girls are not going to start jumping out of the woodworks to date you. You have to take chances and risk hearing no -- that's just the way it works.
As a start, why not join some clubs and get involved in some activities where boys and girls both take part? Then you'll get used to talking to girls, and it won't be such a big deal.
2007-03-16 05:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey brother : let me tell something , 1st i don't like talking to much when I'm giving somebody a piece of advice ,so rule number 1- a girl can open her zipper for u but never say **** me. rule number2-drink coffee and girls when they are hot.
meanwhile maybe u being so perfect is making girls a little afraid, because they think u may not give them the chance, they don't like their hearts to be broken ,it's not easy to fix up broken hearts , so give them the green light with the bright signals of your teeth and eyes, Believe me they will do the rest for you good luck
2007-03-16 05:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by mohamed a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well by the way u described ur self u dont sound shy u sound very confident. trust me theres a girl out there that 'll find u just hav to wait and see. n again by the way that u described ur self theres probly more then one that wants u now
2007-03-16 05:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don' tget any confidence then they want shy is sometimes good but be confident ....flirt with a gurl...tell them you like them
2007-03-16 05:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Hello Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cus u closing ur hearts , example i didnt find any kind gurl like u ,but yet u just ma sister, she colaps soon ,,,,,,,
2007-03-19 08:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound hot to me ( ;
2007-03-16 05:16:36 · answer #11 · answered by Hottie w/ a Bottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋